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tanith Fri 16-Jun-23 12:48:19

How do other grans feel about getting rid of/donating clothes that are perfectly wearable?
I have a few Summer clothes that I like, fit me and have nothing wrong with them apart from the fact I’ve had some of them 6/7+ yrs some probably longer. I’m not bothered about what’s fashionable but people have no doubt seen me wearing these clothes lots of times before, I’m happy to donate them but it just seems so wasteful. I meet people who seem to wear new stuff every time I see them but I’m quite happy wearing things that I’ve had for donkeys.
How do you feel?

Poppyred Sat 17-Jun-23 10:10:08

My body shape has changed over the years, so even though I have managed to lose the middle age spread, my waist now looks a lot thicker as does my upper body. So clothes that I wore 10/15 years ago don’t suit me now.

Hence new wardrobe to accommodate new shape. (That’s my excuse anyway.)

hollysteers Sat 17-Jun-23 10:29:33

Calendargirl

And of course, the Princess Royal is noted for wearing stuff 25+ years old.

I bet she doesn’t give anyone else’s opinions on her fashion choices a single thought.

I was amused by the fur hat Princess Anne wore for her second wedding in Scotland. She had worn it on numerous occasions in the previous years.
Having said that, if I was a member of the RF, I would enjoy adding to my wardrobe!

rosie1959 Sat 17-Jun-23 10:30:11

Tend to give my wardrobe a clear out summer and winter
I replace each season as necessary I wouldn't think there is anything older than around 5 years as I lost quite a bit of weight.
I tend to use the charity bags that turn up through my door but for anything in excellent condition I take to our local RSPCA shop

biglouis Sat 17-Jun-23 10:42:10

I can remember buying a beautiful hand painted cashmere sweater which I wore and wore until it gave out under the arms and could no longer be sewed up. I loved that sweater and made it into a patchwork cushion which I still have. Ive also bought damaged Indian clothes with beautiful embroidery for a song. They get re-cycled into cushions and quilts made in the Indian crazy patchwork style.

Callistemon21 Sat 17-Jun-23 10:46:00

Calendargirl

And of course, the Princess Royal is noted for wearing stuff 25+ years old.

I bet she doesn’t give anyone else’s opinions on her fashion choices a single thought.

She was wearing a suit which must have been years old when I saw her but, of course, it would be excellent quality and she does have clothes altered.

The other thing is that she still stays very trim!

M0nica Sat 17-Jun-23 10:58:34

Yesterday DDiL sent me a photo of DGD on her first and last day at secondary school. She has just done GCSEs and is off to VI Form College.

In each photo she is wearing a kilt - the same kilt. Demurely over her knees at 11, half way up her thighs at 16. She is also into vintage clothing and, as a skilled needleworker, can adapt them to her tastes.

We start them young in our family.

Callistemon21 Sat 17-Jun-23 11:20:10

I can remember my Mum's consternation when I grew out of my gymslip and blazer after two years at High School.
The next ones she bought had plenty of room to grow into but I didn't grow much more after that spurt!

Ali08 Sun 18-Jun-23 15:59:14

Oh this brought back a couple of memories from my teenage years.
Mum telling me I needed new trainers. I didn't, they were comfortable as heck and still looked OK. I went to bed every night hiding them so she couldn't take them. All different places. She eventually found them, and disposed of them much to my annoyance, and bought me new ones. Took me ages to wear them in!
Then there was the nighty. It was the only nylon item I had left (doc had told her to change to all cotton clothing for me as I had psoriasis). It was like your old grandads shirt, with long sleeves, the tail ends and little collar. I just loved it!
Sat at dinner one Saturday night and she said, "I've got something for you." Amd handed me a little bag, but you have to get rid of one thing. I handed the bag back unopened. I knew what she wanted. My comfy old nighty!
Heyyyy, it had seen me through a couple of years & was very comfortably worn in!
I ceded eventually. She had tried her best to find a similar replacement in cotton. My nylon one had been slim vertical blue and white stripes.
The new one, still the grandad style, was pink with tiny flowers on it but had cap sleeves. I wasn't a flowery kid! Lol. But I did eventually get to like that one, too, and it was best for my psoriasis!

Ali08 Sun 18-Jun-23 16:00:17

biglouis

I can remember buying a beautiful hand painted cashmere sweater which I wore and wore until it gave out under the arms and could no longer be sewed up. I loved that sweater and made it into a patchwork cushion which I still have. Ive also bought damaged Indian clothes with beautiful embroidery for a song. They get re-cycled into cushions and quilts made in the Indian crazy patchwork style.

Oooh I bet those Indian clothes are beautiful!