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Do you tip your hairdresser?

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SuzieHi Wed 23-Aug-23 22:31:06

Just about to change to a new hairdresser & wondering whether to start tipping again or not? Is it still expected?
For 20 odd years- used to tip the young trainee hair washer , and also the colourist & then the stylist. 10% roughly of whatever it cost- which was a lot! Retired, moved house & changed hairdresser, then decided not to tip every visit, but to buy them all Xmas presents instead.
What do other Grans do?

Lovetopaint037 Thu 24-Aug-23 10:16:42

My hairdresser comes to the house after cutting my hair for a few years in a big salon. She changed salons but cuts mine on her days off. When she first came to the house I asked her how much she charged and I said that’s not enough and gave her £20 more and have automatically done that ever since. A couple of times I have asked if she wants more and she has said “no”. At Christmas I give her extra in a card.

Maggymay Thu 24-Aug-23 10:35:21

My Hairdresser comes to my house and cuts and blow dries both mine and DH hair,she is here for about 2 hours and charges £45 I always round it up to £50.

Daddima Thu 24-Aug-23 10:36:52

eazybee

Why these personal questions?
Is it an attempt to build up a profile of a GN user so more advertising space -stupid adverts- can be targeted?

I believe Mumsnet is being used to build up a profile of women's problems with the menopause so that advertising of useless products can be targeted at them.

Isn’t it just the kind of questions you might ask in a chat with friends, just out of interest in what others do? Maybe the ‘askers’ don’t have as much contact with friends as they would like.

Theexwife Thu 24-Aug-23 11:16:01

No, I would not tip shop staff for doing their job so why tip a hairdresser?

You are asking about tipping when you don't even know if they are going to do a good job, to me tipping is if someone goes above and beyond not for those that ar doing what they are paid to do.

FlexibleFriend Thu 24-Aug-23 11:39:41

Yeah I think she's very cheap so I tip her a fiver every time I get my hair cut which is approx. every six weeks.

Georgesgran Thu 24-Aug-23 12:44:36

I also tip my manicurist - it’s her own business, but I just round it up, rather than wait for her to find change. So, my £24 gel nail polish costs me £25, every 6 weeks. Still a bargain compared to those big salons in shopping malls.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 24-Aug-23 12:54:14

Yes I tip my hairdresser and young girl who washes my hair.

Yes I tip when I have a manicure, pedicure or any beauty treatment.

Yes I also tip waiting staff and taxi drivers (unless service was dreadful or their driving/cab was not up to to standard)

SuzieHi Thu 24-Aug-23 13:07:44

eazybee

Why these personal questions?
Is it an attempt to build up a profile of a GN user so more advertising space -stupid adverts- can be targeted?

I believe Mumsnet is being used to build up a profile of women's problems with the menopause so that advertising of useless products can be targeted at them.

No…. Just me as a gran asking other grans for their view on tipping the hairdresser!

Milliedog Fri 25-Aug-23 19:05:42

I used to tip my hairdresser, but now I pay by card, (and the price has increased), I don't tip because I don't carry much cash at all.

BlueBelle Fri 25-Aug-23 19:18:55

Maggymay a cut and blow dry for £45 wow !!
I pay £17 for wash cut and blow dry and no I don’t tip anyone
Simply because it’s so unfair We don’t tip bus drivers, train drivers, so why taxi drivers We don’t tip shop assistants or nurses what about the community nurse that comes and bandages you leg weekly, you wouldn’t tip her so why a beautician or hairdresser You tip the waiter but you don’t tip the washer upper or someone who chops and cuts up in the hot kitchen
I don’t understand it at all so no I don’t
I am extremely fair I don’t tip anyone and no I m not tight I give a lot of my money away but this idea of tipping some and not others just isn’t fair

sodapop Fri 25-Aug-23 19:28:49

Absolutely agree BlueBelle my feelings exactly.

Norah Fri 25-Aug-23 19:38:00

Yes.

I tip people who work for themselves, or work on their feet, or work out in bad weather. Anybody really, who does for me.

Greenfinch Fri 25-Aug-23 19:56:20

I have been tipping my hairdresser for 20 years so it would look odd if I stopped now. Even though the price has gone up and she no longer does pensioners’ rates since Covid I still give her extra. As I go only every 3 months for just a cut it doesn’t hurt me to give her an extra couple of pounds.

Kartush Sat 26-Aug-23 11:10:32

Tipping is not a thing in Australia, have never done it.

TillyWhiz Sat 26-Aug-23 11:16:01

Yes I tip 10% too. Salon has less staff since Covid so stylist washes my hair too.

Skydancer Sat 26-Aug-23 11:16:08

I think tipping is a thing of the past. For example taxi drivers now usually accept cards so it wouldn't apply. I don't think either of my AC would tip anyone.

nexus63 Sat 26-Aug-23 11:19:21

i get a dry cut, i wash my hair everyday as i have psoriasis and only use capasal shampoo, it costs £14 and i always giver her £20, i know people will say it is too much but i don't carry money and hairdressers don't take card so it is just easier to get £20 out the atm

campbellwise Sat 26-Aug-23 11:23:03

I have a body perm every four to five months at a cost of £75. She takes such care I give her a £5 tip. It is worth every penny as she takes such care with my fine very blonde hair.

Wigtown Sat 26-Aug-23 11:23:50

As my hairdresser owns the salon I feel the small amount of tip I give would look a bit paltry. I give chocolates and wine for all the staff to share at Christmas.

sharonarnott Sat 26-Aug-23 11:25:42

Not since she put her price up by £5 between visits without even mentioning it. One week I went in it was £55, I went 6 weeks later and went to pay and it was £60. I always used to tip but the fact that she failed to forewarn me of the reasonably big rise griped me so I no longer tip.

Boz Sat 26-Aug-23 11:26:03

Maggiemaybe

I used to. But the prices have gone up so much since my new hairdresser took over the salon that I’m now paying twice what I did 3 years ago for my usual cut and blow dry. He’s good, but I now go for the principle of not tipping the salon owner!

Precisely. The Salon averages £100 a month off me, so disinclined to tip.

knspol Sat 26-Aug-23 11:28:14

In the US 20% is expected so that's what I did, got used to tipping when living there but back in UK seems to not be a routine practice. However I always give the hairdresser a fiver for a cut and if I have a colour too then I give £10 as a tip. Also tip manicurist and always 20% in a restaurant unless service poor when it's either 10% or nothing.
Have never tipped very helpful and pleasant shopping delivery chaps although did once offer a Christmas tip and was told they were not allowed to take tips.

Philippa111 Sat 26-Aug-23 11:29:39

My hair cut is expensive. I don't tip my hairdresser as he is the owner of the business but I do tip the young girl who washes my hair and does a quick head massage. I think they get paid almost nothing as apprentices.

RicePudding613794 Sat 26-Aug-23 11:30:28

I’ve been going to my lovely hairdresser for over twenty five years…I always used to tip her, and didn’t stop even when she and another girl bought over the business and became the owners.
More recently, there are only three or four stylists and no juniors, which I like as it means my hairdresser does everything from start to finish. Since lockdown, I really don’t ever have cash in my purse, so I now buy her a little something maybe every other visit, such as a bottle of wine, at Easter or Halloween, I buy buns or a cake, most recently I gave her a bunch of flowers, which she absolutely loved. I always tip generously in restaurants etc, but found the business of tipping someone that I’ve known for so long, and visit every five/six weeks, very awkward, but I feel this is a much more pleasant way to show my appreciation of her and she seems to love getting unexpected surprises too.

cc Sat 26-Aug-23 11:34:40

I don't tip the salon owner, but do tip others who wash or whatever. At the moment I have a hairdresser who comes to my home and don't tip her but she is moving and I don't know where I'll go.