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Coat Donation For Homeless.

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Calendargirl Tue 07-Nov-23 14:18:24

Would you donate a good quality M&S Blue Harbour winter coat for the homeless if the zip doesn’t always stay fastened?

It has good press studs, so would stay fastened up, but obviously not so good without the zip also.

It’s really warm and cosy, apart from the dodgy zip.

I feel it would keep someone dry and warm as it is, but can’t sew myself and don’t feel like buying a new heavy duty zip and having to pay for it to be put in.

Thoughts welcome, even if you don’t agree.

Calendargirl Sun 12-Nov-23 14:04:29

I agree Doodledog.

You then see stories of single mothers say, given a council flat or similar, which has had all previous furnishings ripped out, so they are walking on bare floors, with no carpet or other floor coverings, and maybe no curtains or any furnishings.

It’s mad.

Doodledog Sun 12-Nov-23 13:58:30

Calendargirl

^So, you are giving it away, not because it does not fit, but because the zip does not work properly all the time. Hmm.^

Yes, and if someone is soaked to the skin, with no means of drying their wet coat, then I would think a warm, dry serviceable coat with good fasteners, albeit a wonky zip, would be worth having.

You see homeless people with dirty duvets, sleeping on park benches, but when I enquired at a homeless shelter about donating good, clean duvets and bedding, was told, “No, we can’t accept second hand stuff, only brand new items. But you could give cash for us to buy new things”.

Seems crazy to me.

It does seem a case of 'health and safety gone mad' grin. I usually much prefer the idea of being healthy and safe to a culture of cutting corners, but there are times when people should be able to make their own choices - do you want this or not?

A friend of mine's MIL died, and my friend, who lived miles away, was asked to clear the MIL's council bungalow so that it could be given to the next resident. She was given a week or so to clear it, and was told to dispose of everything inside. It was impossible to get rid of the furniture in that timescale, particularly as the distance made things even more difficult, so it had to go to the tip and the council charged per item. There were fairly new carpets, and they had to go too - even the underlay was ripped out and binned.

I know that not everyone would want a previous resident's things, and there is always a possibility of fleas or bedbugs, but IMO the next tenant should at least be able to look around and choose whether to keep things or not at their own risk. Someone might not have much furniture (eg if they have been living with family) and carpets from their previous place are highly unlikely to fit the new one. The furniture could have gone to someone in vulnerable housing, or offered to people who were struggling, but the council offered no such service, and a combination of the timescale and the distance between my friend and her MIL made offering it on local Freecycle-type sites all but impossible, particularly as her husband was grieving the loss of his mother. It was such a dreadful waste.

Calendargirl Sun 12-Nov-23 13:45:31

sunglow12

Did you know that if you donate broken or ripped clothes to a charity shop quite often they take them and get paid for cloth by the kilo and it’s made into other stuff such as carpet underfelt or other stuff ?

Yes, as the OP to this post, I realise that, but my point was that the coat was far too good to give as rags to be used as carpet under felt. Far too good to go as rags.

No wonder there is so much waste.

Calendargirl Sun 12-Nov-23 13:43:20

So, you are giving it away, not because it does not fit, but because the zip does not work properly all the time. Hmm.

Yes, and if someone is soaked to the skin, with no means of drying their wet coat, then I would think a warm, dry serviceable coat with good fasteners, albeit a wonky zip, would be worth having.

You see homeless people with dirty duvets, sleeping on park benches, but when I enquired at a homeless shelter about donating good, clean duvets and bedding, was told, “No, we can’t accept second hand stuff, only brand new items. But you could give cash for us to buy new things”.

Seems crazy to me.

sunglow12 Sun 12-Nov-23 13:38:36

Did you know that if you donate broken or ripped clothes to a charity shop quite often they take them and get paid for cloth by the kilo and it’s made into other stuff such as carpet underfelt or other stuff ?

BlueBelle Sun 12-Nov-23 13:09:39

It’s about a £1 for a large full bag of rags, bigger than a black bag and weighing about 10k full of clothes not good enough to sell

Tanjamaltija Sun 12-Nov-23 13:08:34

So, you are giving it away, not because it does not fit, but because the zip does not work properly all the time. Hmmm... Ask around if someone will fix it, or tell the people at the shelter about the problem, so they get to decide whether to take it, or not. They might even be able to do it themselves.

Eddieslass Sun 12-Nov-23 13:05:06

Could you not explain and check with the people at the drop off point? Incidentally, honeyrose, some charity shops, British heart Foundation, for one, get good money for rags.

karmalady Sun 12-Nov-23 12:58:27

I would fix it and then donate it, a working zip will keep the wearer warmer. The repair cafes that are everywhere would likely take it in and fix it

Sawsage2 Sun 12-Nov-23 12:49:48

I gave an unused thick sleeping bag to a man on the street. He was very grateful.

grandtanteJE65 Sun 12-Nov-23 11:59:57

I would donate that coat if I were you.

The person that gets it may be able to fix the zip or know someone who can.

Or the charity may have volunteer sempstresses or tailors who do repairs before the clothes are handed out.

Juicylucy Sun 12-Nov-23 11:39:04

Well I have a different spin on this. I had a brand new men’s warm hooded fleece lined coat. I decided to offer it to the guy who sat outside our local ASDA I gave it to him on the way in to store he was pleased and tried it on. However by time I came out maybe 45 minutes later he didn’t have it on. I asked what he’d done with it, he brazenly told me he’d sold it for tobacco. So I’d suggest give it to an organisation rather to the guy on the street.

NemosMum Sun 12-Nov-23 11:26:21

Glad you donated to a collection point - likelihood is that they use donations to raise money. My daughter manages a cluster of charity shops for a local hospice. They have a very professional attitude to sorting, repairing and placing for best sales distribution. On a related matter, please do not give directly to homeless. I attended some talks given by Crisis and the local authority homeless unit. If people donate directly (including the odd coin) this is likely just to feed an addiction. Certainly, in our city, there are beds for everyone, and those who are begging on the street are not necessarily homeless, but are usually feeding an addiction. Better to give your donations of cash and clothing to those people who have the training and facilities to help people out of a destructive lifestyle.

Callistemon21 Wed 08-Nov-23 22:20:00

gers mone 😁
gets money

Callistemon21 Wed 08-Nov-23 22:19:18

MerylStreep

Honeyrose
If you have clothes with a fault that can’t be repaired ( usually by me 😉) please donate for the rag bag.
We get good coats with zip problems. We put it out at a really reduced price so that customers can decide.

I just donated some good (a couple of new) clothes to the charity shop plus a small bag clearly labelled 'Rags' as I know that shop gers mone for them.

They didn't want soft toys but I see some more battered ones for sale on Ebay for quite a bit of money.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 08-Nov-23 21:43:41

Well done Whiff.

MerylStreep Wed 08-Nov-23 21:05:26

Honeyrose
If you have clothes with a fault that can’t be repaired ( usually by me 😉) please donate for the rag bag.
We get good coats with zip problems. We put it out at a really reduced price so that customers can decide.

Calendargirl Wed 08-Nov-23 20:30:02

Thanks for all comments.

DH has today dropped the coat off at the collection point for donations for homeless.

Hope someone finds it useful.

Whiff Wed 08-Nov-23 07:12:29

If you donate it to a charity shop. Someone will buy it even if it has a dodgy zip. People don't always buy clothes to wear but to reuse the fabric , trimmings etc .

Before I moved house I had 3 good quality clean duvets I wanted to give to a homeless shelter they refused them saying they don't take second hand but if I gave them the money they would buy new ones.

I got in touch with an animal charity they had them like a shot saying they would make them small but be ideal of the animals in there care as they where warm but lightweight and washable .

I got in touch with the Salvation army about 2 young men who where homeless in the town where I used to live as one was unwell. They informed there where no homeless in the town . I pointed out I had spoke to them that morning. I am an atheist but got in touch with a local church which helped the homeless they thanked me . Later they phoned me to let me know the young man who was ill had pneumonia and was being taken care of and both the men had been given accommodation in a shelter.

I know this is off track of the OP's question. But this is my experience .

DanniRae Wed 08-Nov-23 07:10:48

Yes I would donate it the homeless. As has already been said a warm coat with a dodgy zip is miles better than no coat at all.

Ailsa43 Tue 07-Nov-23 23:42:53

There's a great likelihood that if donated to a charity with an unusable zip that it will be put into the Rag Bag. Personally I would take the coat and find someone on the streets to give it to...

henetha Tue 07-Nov-23 23:30:42

Definitely I would donate it. It could be exactly what someone needs .

Doodledog Tue 07-Nov-23 23:27:04

Why not donate it to a charity shop? Someone who can sew might buy it and put a new zip in.

Otherwise yes, I would donate it. A coat with poppers is better than no coat at all.

ginny Tue 07-Nov-23 23:11:36

Oh would donate tit. Better a warm coat that does up even if the zip is temperamental than no coat.
A group I belong to have been knitting warm hats for homeless people. The ones I have been knitting are cosy , plain garter stitch pull ons. I figured I could knit twice as many in less time than using a ribbed or fancy pattern .

Theexwife Tue 07-Nov-23 19:55:16

Shelflife

I don't understand your point Theewife. Sounds very noble - but really!!?? Good job we don't all think that way or there would be even more people on the streets who freeze to death. Calendargirl some one will appreciate your coat.

The question was, would you donate ….. I answered no I would not, we dont have to all agree. I do donate, things that no longer fit or that I no longer like, I dont know how that translates to if others thought the same then people on the street would freeze to death.