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Alcohol and the elderly

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Pat37 Wed 21-Feb-24 20:21:19

I am shocked that a very elderly one who lives alone has decided you only have one life and has take to drinking wine with her evening meal and what I call a liquer of an evening . She also takes medication but I don't know what . Should I be concerned ?

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Feb-24 15:27:03

Apologies - Cannabis was reclassified (again) to a Class B drug in 2009. I am out of touch!

biglouis Fri 23-Feb-24 15:35:06

Im doomed then because I drink 3 units (half a bottle of wine) a week with a special meal which my nephew cooks. I never drink alone and I hate pubs.

greenlady102 Fri 23-Feb-24 15:36:26

hilarious post, I hope it is a wind up! A few years ago now, I tripped up going down the step into my garden and ended up with an injured knee and ankle. Not bad enough to see a doc but my walking was very limited. Apart from the carton I am using, I keep my milk in a fridge in the garage so for a few days my coffee had Baily's in it regardless of the time of day. I don't normally do it on account of driving but it certainly made me feel heaps better!

greenlady102 Fri 23-Feb-24 15:38:04

biglouis

Im doomed then because I drink 3 units (half a bottle of wine) a week with a special meal which my nephew cooks. I never drink alone and I hate pubs.

I never used to drink alone until my elderly dog died. He would enjoy a chew while I enjoyed an evening drink. I decided not to get another dog so now I drink alone unless the tortoise counts?

maddyone Fri 23-Feb-24 15:42:19

What does the tortoise drink greenlady? grin

MissAdventure Fri 23-Feb-24 15:47:34

grin

Happygirl79 Fri 23-Feb-24 15:52:07

So, OP what is your definition of elderly?

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Feb-24 15:54:25

maddyone

What does the tortoise drink greenlady? grin

Gin, of course! 😁

glammagran Fri 23-Feb-24 15:58:49

I’m quite intrigued by the glass of wine drinkers. As a bottle only lasts a couple of days once opened before it starts to go vinegary what happens to the rest of the bottle? Unless we are talking 250cl measures.

We don’t drink at all Mon-Thurs. But on the other 3 days it’s a rarity for any wine to last overnight. Saturday is a bottle of fizz and then a bottle of white or red our weekly indulgence. Not a fan of spirits really. And definitely not Baileys. 🤢

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Feb-24 16:00:46

It will last a bit longer than a couple of days and then could go in the gravy anyway!

greenlady102 Fri 23-Feb-24 16:04:00

Callistemon21

maddyone

What does the tortoise drink greenlady? grin

Gin, of course! 😁

hahahahaha

Magrithea Fri 23-Feb-24 16:04:43

For goodness sake! It's their life and they're old enough to know what the issues are. MYOB!

greenlady102 Fri 23-Feb-24 16:05:20

maddyone

What does the tortoise drink greenlady? grin

only the very best bottled water. She won't touch tap! In summer its not a problem as she drinks from puddles in the garden.

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Feb-24 16:12:53

I think your tortoise is very clever!

M0nica Fri 23-Feb-24 16:27:41

We buy half and one third bottles and in restaruants and pubs we buy by the glass.

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Feb-24 16:33:51

glammagran

I’m quite intrigued by the glass of wine drinkers. As a bottle only lasts a couple of days once opened before it starts to go vinegary what happens to the rest of the bottle? Unless we are talking 250cl measures.

We don’t drink at all Mon-Thurs. But on the other 3 days it’s a rarity for any wine to last overnight. Saturday is a bottle of fizz and then a bottle of white or red our weekly indulgence. Not a fan of spirits really. And definitely not Baileys. 🤢

You can buy 187ml bottles and cans of many wines (4 for 3 in Tesco) and they don't work out much more expensive per ml than a full-size bottle, certainly cheaper than wasting it.

Delia recommended freezing leftover wine in ice cube trays for using in cooking.

Suzieque66 Fri 23-Feb-24 16:34:19

Seriously ? Butt out and how much she drinks and when is not your concern ...

Saggi Fri 23-Feb-24 16:41:24

I have an elderly friend who has been tee-total all her miserable . She quite brazenly told me she was born a virgin and would ‘go to her grave’untouched!!!! A …manless….childless….grandchildless….fear ridden ….oh-so-careful ‘ what you eat’ life .
She does nothing but complain about her existence . I got mad with her on phone the other day and told her she should’ve found herself a bed-partner …a bottle of plonk …and had herself a good time! Even if only just once!
Yikes Pat37…..leave your elderly person to pick her own way out of this world. Sounds like she’s done her duty and is now enjoying herself. As am I!

readsalot Fri 23-Feb-24 16:51:55

Wow, so judgemental! You really want her to stop enjoying what’s left of her life, don’t you? Mind your own business and get the Brasso so you can polish that halo of yours.

Diplomat Fri 23-Feb-24 16:54:31

Stanlow your recipe was hilarious!!!!!!

sodapop Fri 23-Feb-24 17:58:34

I loved your recipe too Stanlow gringrin

Juicylucy Fri 23-Feb-24 18:00:12

You certainly don’t need to be worried about her.

undines Fri 23-Feb-24 18:25:46

Is this a serious post or one designed to get us all going?
Reckon the wine will probably do her more good than the meds!
Cheers!

MissAdventure Fri 23-Feb-24 18:26:53

It certainly has got you all going. 🤭

Patsy70 Fri 23-Feb-24 18:44:25

Stanlow, tried following the recipe, but fell over! 😂