My mother-in-law has (about 5 years ago)moved to be closer to us. The retirement properties in her new area are all "expensive" and "desirable" - some are old buildings which have been beautifully converted. Quite a few have small patio type gardens. She decided to move to a house instead and is very happy there so although I admit I would have liked the "on call 24 hours a day" security of the retirement units it was probably right for her to move into a house... somewhere arguably too big and with a big garden! 
I think if you are happy and safe in your retirement home that is the most impotant thing.
I love my mother-in-law and if she had used up all her savings and all her equity in a retirement property that wokld have been fine. Being happy and comfortable... that's OK by me.
I'm sure most daughters and sons will feel like this?
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