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Would you be a granny escort?

(161 Posts)
Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 10:06:27

Well would you? I wouldn’t but she’s getting filthy rich doing so…was a devout Christian for 40 yrs, then met a 27year old rugby player at age 57…

Desdemona Tue 04-Feb-25 18:51:39

Babs03

If any young man showed any interest in me I would run for the hills. I had enough of that in my time, now I would rather curl up in bed with a good book. And I would obviously point him in the direction of specsavers.

Haha, yes I would be the same. smile

Iam64 Tue 04-Feb-25 18:52:59

Sago

The woman in question is not to be believed, I saw her years ago on a swingers documentary, she is fame hungry and probably mentally ill.
I didn’t watch the article so I don’t know what she claimed but I would take it with a pinch of salt.
She was a sad character.

Thanks Sago

I posted earlier that I fiubd it hard to believe she’d suddenly gone into sex work in her 70’s.
I realise I sound like an aged puritan, I don’t believe I am. My responses based on ‘knowing’ too many ‘sex workers’

Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:10:35

She didn't start in her 70s...she said she was 57...

theworriedwell Tue 04-Feb-25 19:17:07

I used to work with vice squad in local police force. I very much doubt she's making that sort of money. There are prostitutes who make a lot of money but far more not making much. There are niche markets though the heavily pregnant girls always worried me particularly if I was sorting out their documents while they were having contractions.

VANECAM Tue 04-Feb-25 19:24:50

MissAdventure

I don't find her sad.
She's happier than some miserable old buggers.

Before I open the link, can you advise me on something please.
If I watch the YouTube video, will AI start sending me similar videos to watch (which I might find troublesome)?

VANECAM Tue 04-Feb-25 19:26:36

MissAdventure

I think this is her

youtu.be/FuVaGzJ4V3g?si=mNOsYSE3hLi4e0uj

Is this the one?

MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-25 19:30:43

I watch YouTube all the time, and have never had anything sent to me, at all.

Youtube don't send people links.

MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-25 19:31:38

Oh, and I've never had AI send me anything, either.

VANECAM Tue 04-Feb-25 19:38:06

I thought they sent all-go-rhythms?

Esmay Tue 04-Feb-25 19:40:36

I have met a few younger men,who are very keen on Grandmas !
I don't really know if it's sexual or the fact that they lust after a new jumper or a steamed pudding .
Of course ,we Grandnas can do more than that !
I was told that I'm cuddly and soft .
One told me that he dreamt of my cooking .
It's fortunate that he didn't see my attempts at knitting!
I can't say that having sex with these guys appeals to me.
I have met older women , who are into all sorts of sexual acts even dogging .
I'd find it too cold in the park !
Each to their own.

MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-25 19:43:37

Hopefully someone else can reassure you, as I'm not at all techy.
The next time I go on YouTube, there will probably be older escort videos for me to browse, but I simply won't browse them.

Th3 next thing I watch will probably mean that videos of the same kind of content will be on view, which will probably be crime ones.

bathsalts Tue 04-Feb-25 19:49:15

It makes me heave.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:51:17

Allira

Grannynannywanny

I see a gap in the market here for us Gransnetters. Forget OnlyFans. We could call it OnlyGrans. The withdrawal of the winter fuel allowance would be a distant memory once we have our new business thriving 😆

Especially those with hip or knee replacements! grin

What about teeth?

Better without.
By all accounts.

AreWeThereYet Tue 04-Feb-25 19:54:06

VANECAM

MissAdventure

I don't find her sad.
She's happier than some miserable old buggers.

Before I open the link, can you advise me on something please.
If I watch the YouTube video, will AI start sending me similar videos to watch (which I might find troublesome)?

AI won't do anything at all but YouTube might send you similar videos once it's algorythm gets updated.

At the very least it is likely to send you any other videos made by the same channel. But just tell it you don't want to see anything from that channel.

Iam64 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:55:39

FGT - that’s my impression from my South African informant. Do you have similar informants .,..

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 19:59:06

🤣🤣🤣

nanaK54 Tue 04-Feb-25 20:08:42

Babs03

If any young man showed any interest in me I would run for the hills. I had enough of that in my time, now I would rather curl up in bed with a good book. And I would obviously point him in the direction of specsavers.

Same and a nice cup of tea and a digestive biscuit grin

petra Tue 04-Feb-25 20:09:36

VANECAM

MissAdventure

I don't find her sad.
She's happier than some miserable old buggers.

Before I open the link, can you advise me on something please.
If I watch the YouTube video, will AI start sending me similar videos to watch (which I might find troublesome)?

Are you saying that you’ve never watched a YouTube video 🤦🏼‍♀️
And no, the Ai bogey man won’t come after you.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 04-Feb-25 20:21:09

Sex and money are bartered between consenting adults. Always have been, always will be.

petra Tue 04-Feb-25 20:28:06

We unknowingly ( that’s the truth) rented a flat to a sex worker.
She moved on after 6 years which was handy as we came back to the uk to live at this time so used the flat while we decided what we were going to do.
I was in one day when the intercom phone rang. My daughter answered it. He asked if Miss S was in. No, she doesn’t live here anymore. He said he was one of her clients.
I went out on the balcony to see what he looked like ( he sounded very young.
He was a good looking young man of about 18. The lady of the night was in her late 40s.
She was one of the best tenants we had.

Some of my grandson’s friends often tell him they think his mum ( my daughter) is well fit. She’s 54 and she is 🥰

Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 21:02:19

This Morning program has received many complaints from enraged viewers why this should have been a topic for conversation at 10 am.. agree

Allsorts Tue 04-Feb-25 21:03:23

She has never been in love, no family that she is close to, she wants attention. It’s sordid, you can’t think otherwise. Why they thought it a suitable subject for morning tv I don't know.
I can only think the people on here that says its fine and see nothing wrong in it have lost the plot also.
I know I would rather have a get together with my girl friends (old ladies, I suppose all over 70) or a glass of wine and a good book, than all that.

foxie48 Tue 04-Feb-25 21:26:34

I'm well past the stage and age of being shocked by what others find interesting, exciting or sexual as long as it is within the law. I can't see that she is harming anyone. I've got a friend who has been in a relationship with someone 30 years her junior for the past 25 years. She's nearly 80 now and he's still by her side in a loving relationship. It takes all sorts!

Primrose53 Tue 04-Feb-25 21:36:18

Sago

The woman in question is not to be believed, I saw her years ago on a swingers documentary, she is fame hungry and probably mentally ill.
I didn’t watch the article so I don’t know what she claimed but I would take it with a pinch of salt.
She was a sad character.

I thought I recognised her too. There was a prog about 5 years ago about older ladies attracting younger men. Sure she was on there.

Dickens Tue 04-Feb-25 21:48:57

MissAdventure

She just enjoys the company and sex, I presume.
No excuses needed.

She doesn't need to make excuses - her life, her body, her choice.

I don't though understand why she wants to go public - in detail. It reminds of those women, and men, who marry or have much younger partners, and want you to know how many times they "do it" per week, or how they "can't keep their hands off each other."

What's the motive? Are they seeking to impress? Reassure themselves? Are they getting huge sums for 'spilling the beans'? I genuinely don't understand.

I know sex work is now normalised, but I find it hard to accept that "it's just a job" like any other job.

Some of the abuse and violence perpetrated against sex workers - mostly women - isn't something you normally have to deal with in the workplace. Not to even mention those who are addicted to street drugs and find this is the only way to get 'easy' money.

Of course there are men who prefer 'granny sex' - the industry caters for as wider variety of fetishes as you can imagine.

Many years ago I read (not online - we weren't online in those days) about a cohort of men who were actually attracted to young women with disfigurements - especially amputees, in particular those who'd been in a car-crash. It wasn't a "shock, horror" article, but a serious look at the mind-set of these men. Apparently, they liked to have sex in wrecked cars - to re-enact the devastation of a car-crash, where the women were immobilised by their 'injuries' and compliant.

It might be a bit of a laugh - granny getting her rocks off with younger men (and, if it's true, being quite handsomely paid for it) - but to me, it's all part of a much murkier world.

There's a few weirdos out there - I hope this old gal doesn't come across any of them.