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Feeling paralysed with body pain on waking up

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Bea65 Thu 10-Jul-25 21:34:53

Do any other GNs experience this...am used to having paralysis in hands and knee throbbings/stinging on a daily basis but this is something different which i haven't experienced before.

I awake and know immediately i cannot move as feel paralysed all down body and ache so much...I at least know am alive!!

Had right side THR in march and now my ?widespread OA seems to be affecting my whole body...is this normal?? Its soo scary...

Honestly, my whole body seems to be angry...am i Weird?
Takes so much longer to be able to get out of bed and functionsad

BlueBelle Mon 21-Jul-25 13:32:43

I felt vulnerable because a was wearing shorts, albeit long knee length & sandals

Oh for goodness sake Mt you’re upset because a man’s wearing shorts and sandals ( I agree the spittings not nice ) how have you got to old age without ever been near a man in shorts for goodness sake, change your seat if someone isn’t to your taste
I was the only white woman In the waiting room. So what !!
You thought you might have a blood clot but left because you were the only white woman in the area, a man sat near you in shorts and sandals, and someone gobbled on the floor Well you are very lucky you didn’t have a blood clot

dragonfly46 Mon 21-Jul-25 13:37:59

BlueBelle

*I felt vulnerable because a was wearing shorts, albeit long knee length & sandals*

Oh for goodness sake Mt you’re upset because a man’s wearing shorts and sandals ( I agree the spittings not nice ) how have you got to old age without ever been near a man in shorts for goodness sake, change your seat if someone isn’t to your taste
I was the only white woman In the waiting room. So what !!
You thought you might have a blood clot but left because you were the only white woman in the area, a man sat near you in shorts and sandals, and someone gobbled on the floor Well you are very lucky you didn’t have a blood clot

Gosh read the posts properly please.

MT was wearing shorts and sandals not the man next to her. She thought maybe he was offended.

I tried statins but they gave me aches and pains so the pharmacist at our surgery prescribed non statins which will lower my cholesterol.

Mt61 Mon 21-Jul-25 13:55:56

Thanks dragonfly46. Bluebell could do with winding her neck a bit, before she reads the posts.

Allira Mon 21-Jul-25 16:33:31

Mt61

Caleo

MT61, Spitting on the floor may have been a sign the man was unfamiliar with our culture.

It is often regarded as more hygienic to spit on the floor than to swallow sputum or spit it into a hanky and them put hanky in pocket.

Oh that’s ok then Caleo, spitting on a hospital floor- I realise then he was probably offended at my wearing of shorts & the phlegm was aimed at my feet. Not good.

I've been spat at just because I spoke with a British accent in a foreign country (not that far away, in fact!). It is most unpleasant because it's not just spit.

It's a vile habit.

Mt61 Mon 21-Jul-25 18:56:03

Caleo

" realise then he was probably offended at my wearing of shorts & the phlegm was aimed at my feet."

ah now I see where you are coming from Your intuition was probably right if he spat at your feet.

A similar thing happened to me concerning a brown skinned schoolboy looked 'Asian' who spat immediately in front of my feet as I exited my drive with my dog. I was so offended I crossed the road rather than pass close to him.

Caleo I am offended by anyone who spits, we don’t know what that spit contains do we? Doesn’t matter who’s doing the spitting it’s gross 🤮

Allira Mon 21-Jul-25 19:51:02

A woman who spat at a police officer and suggested she may have Covid-19 has been jailed for 20 weeks.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-52714254

crazyH Mon 21-Jul-25 19:59:39

Bea65 - your OP has moved on to ‘spitting*
Just to answer your question. Yes, I have body aches in the morning. My right side seems to go into spasm. And it takes a bit of slow manoeuvring, to get back to some sort of normality.
You’re not alone …

Caleo Mon 21-Jul-25 19:59:58

MT51, yes, 'we ' do know what spit contains. All excretions can carry diseases'

What happened to you in the waiting room looked as if it possibly was intended as a personal insult, and the security man was apparently useless at taking issue with the offender. You did well to not engage with the offender yourself.

Allira Mon 21-Jul-25 20:12:25

Bea65

I see you're going to see a GP tomorrow - at last!!
Whether or not you'll have any answers is another matter.

It does sound as if it could be trapped nerves. Has that been investigated?

Bea65 Tue 22-Jul-25 07:17:27

What is all this spitting on thread?

ALLIRA trapped nerves possibly..

I’m going to request post op bloods to determine inflammation markers..just hope she’s empathetic agrees to this 🤞🏻

Allira Tue 22-Jul-25 10:44:34

I'm going this afternoon as well - seeing a GP!! 😯 I hope to get some answers.
Good luck.

Caleo Tue 22-Jul-25 11:47:18

Bea, the thread has unspun itself into two separate filaments.

* help with polymyalgia

* spitting at people as ethnic way to express hate or disapproval

Bea65 Wed 23-Jul-25 08:23:05

Wow, is this the dark web of Gransnet?

Allira hope your appt went well 🤞🏻
I’ve got appt for blood work later re inflammation markers with nurse and follow up review of meds once results come back
…the PA did try and get me an appt with female GP .. there are none till middle August 🤨 re groin pain - she couldn’t offer any explanation re the totally frozen feeling on waking up and best to wait for blood work results …I did agree with her logic

There was only 1 person waiting in waiting room, but, the foot traffic to reception was long and almost out the door!
I overheard many people saying that they can’t get thru on the phone lines so had to come in person…and, interestingly, I didn’t hear the phones ringing off the hook ..maybe they were on mute…

keepingquiet Wed 23-Jul-25 08:49:37

I am glad you are finally getting some help and hope you have reassuring answers soon.

Caleo Wed 23-Jul-25 09:08:32

"Wow, is this the dark web of Gransnet?" (Bea) Yes> A lot of tales are spun on Gransnet.

Allira Wed 23-Jul-25 10:29:39

Bea65
I will PM you. It might take a little while!

Allira Wed 23-Jul-25 10:43:28

the PA did try and get me an appt with female GP .. there are none till middle August 🤨 re groin pain

Ask the PA to give a message to duty GP - that does require investigation asap.

Yes, my appointment went fine, thanks Bea65 although the receptionist hadn't actually booked me in so I had to wait!

Bea65 Thu 24-Jul-25 16:58:42

Had bloods taken so will get a review with GP next week🤞🤞