One interesting thing about this thread is how all but one (Marieeliz) have similar feelings. I'm the eldest of 4 (2 boys, 2 girls) and our father died of cancer aged 55. My mother had what was then know as pre senile dementia and was subsequently diagnosed with Alzheimers. My sister and I took it in turns to visit her at weekends but my brothers almost never. Mum often asked about my brothers and said she didn't hear from them. I asked one, who lived in Wales, if he would send her an occasional postcard. His response was that he couldn't afford it and when I said I'd send him some money his response was don't bother. Something went wrong in my family when we were young and it's difficult to see what. I and my oldest brother went to grammar schools. The two younger siblings, because of ill health, didn't manage to pass the 11 plus and so went to secondary modern schools. My younger brother spent more than a year in a special orthopeadic hospital in Hampshire. Every Saturday my parents visited him from Essex, taking sweets and comics. Years later, when my sister and I were staying at my Mum's nursing home during her last week we were talking about our childhood and the sweets and comics were what she remembered the most. We all had pocket money and we each had a comic (Girl, Eagle etc - something virtuous!) but she had feelings of deprivation. My sister refused to come to Mum's funeral because she'd fallen out with my younger brother and her excuse was that she'd already said goodbye. I haven't seen my brothers since the funeral 30 years ago and only seen my sister a few times. ~It seems to be the same with most of my close friends, sadly. I think we have this idea of a blissful family life when siblings get together with their own families and have a lovely time. I'm sure some do but I don't know of any.
Baby Reindeer - anyone watched it?
Alphabetical girls and boys names January 2024