I have just deleted a longer post as I realised it would outing and could cause upset.
So edited version....
My friend's father would have been married to his first wife (who I knew and liked) for about 30 years and was with his partner (who I know and like) for just over 30 years.
I had a feeling that he would be buried with his first wife and recently I was proven to be right as my friend's father has now sadly died .
I understand that for the adult children their mother and father are now together and from a financial point of view they already had plot but....
I feel so sorry for his long term partner who has nursed him through his long term illness.
She has been part of the family and a grandmother to his eight grandchildren.
The grandchildren were not even born when the first wife passed away.
The grave is close to my parents grave, so I see it when I visit and for some reason I feel really uncomfortable.
I would be interested to
read other GNers thoughts.
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