Buried with first wife

Our family grave has in it- In order of adding- My mum &dad's second son (my brother )died in infancy, my maternal grandfather, my paternal grandfather's ashes, my paternal grandmother, my maternal grandmother's ashes, my dad's ashes and I'm about to add my mum's ashes. I like to think they're having a family party in there!

There's a good chance that his partner doesn't really mind where he's buried. She probably knew what the plan was anyway.

My late (second) husband wanted his ashes scattered. When he died, his sisters wanted his ashes put in the family (uncle and aunts) grave instead. I agreed as I didn't mind either way and knew he wouldn't want them upset.

Mind you, I've upset them anyway by never visiting as memorials have no meaning for me. They shouldn't expect me to agree with their religious ideas of respecting the dead by doing duty visits, I believe.

A lady in my cemetery has sorted it she is buried with both her husband and her lifelong best friend 2 men one woman that’s how to do it eh
I ve got no one to share my bed with ?

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If he stated in his will to be buried with his first wife then that should be respected. It's the appropriate thing to do anyway. But ideally it would be nice if the second 'wife' could go there with them, seeing that they were together for so long. I'm sure the family will discuss this, and I hope there are no disagreements.

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