We feel deep grief because we loved so much. Each tear drop is a pearl of love. No one can tell you exactly how grief will take you. There will be good days and bad days - do you have family to support you when you are having a particularly bad time? And family who need support when they are having a bad time so you can help each other? You will never get over the loss of your son but you will learn how to cope. This was the most important thing I learnt after losing my son, 15 years ago now.
One thing I did find helpful was raising money for my son’s favourite charity. It gave me permission to be doing something and a purpose that I knew he would have approved of. Gradually I started living again and it became easier to wear that smiling face I took out from the jar beside my bed each morning.
Peace was the one thing I craved and I always wish it to every bereaved person. So Cambellwise I am going to send you a big hug and my heartfelt wishes for peace. xxx
Is there such a thing as delicious ready meals?
sticky labels on apples - remove before washing!