Nfk
My father was diagnosed with osteoporosis 2 and a half years ago, same as myself, mother and many family members including males.
He was taken to hospital and from that moment we have never looked back. The hospital made a referral to the Social Services and a home assessment was made before he was allowed home. The service was brilliant and his home was made safe for his return. He has a care package that means he is assisted with washing, dressing and his bed changed as and when required. His meals are prepared for him and his independance has been kept intact. He has his shopping done and I do his tablets, washing and ironing, cleaning etc, well I say me it's my poor old hubby actually does most of it.If I had not been in a position to do so I think his pension, with guaranteed pension and attendance allowance would cover for the extra help.
What I am saying is find out all you can from Social Services, it is surprising what your dear mother may be entitled to. They look into finances, yes, but not to snoop but to see if she is entitled too more financial help. We claim no carers allowance as we wanted the maximum amount of money available to go to his care in full and it is well covered.
I wish you well and your dear mother.