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Are Sutton Coldfield people too posh to help?.

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HUNTERF Wed 24-Jul-13 11:10:18

When I was coming back from the park a woman's car would not start in front of mine.
I parked my car at the side of the road, got out and started pushing her car round the corner.
The 2 women drivers behind just kept on blowing their horn.
Did they not think if they got out and helped we could have got the obstruction cleared quicker? as I was pushing the car up hill.

Frank

gracesmum Wed 24-Jul-13 11:12:27

Good for you Frank. They might just have felt they weren't strong enough or had back problems, we don't know, but hooting is plain bad manners (I would have expected better in Sutton Coldfield)

Ana Wed 24-Jul-13 11:17:14

What a hero, Frank! smile Lucky you were there - I wonder how long the two women would have sat there hooting otherwise!

Mishap Wed 24-Jul-13 11:20:30

What bad manners! I always get cross when people hoot for no purpose in a situation that cannot be changed.

york46 Wed 24-Jul-13 11:41:03

Good for you, Frank, and how lucky for that woman that you came along. Unfortunately, many people would have just left her to get on with it. Good Samaritans are rare these days.

sunseeker Wed 24-Jul-13 11:42:41

Some years ago my DH's pickup stalled in the middle of the lane. A neighbour who was behind him immediately started sounding his horn - my DH got out of his pickup, walked back to the neighbour and said "tell you what, you start my truck and I'll blow your horn". Neighbour didn't say a word and sat in silence until DH managed to get his pickup started again!

Bags Wed 24-Jul-13 11:56:49

Title should have been too posh to push wink

Maybe the hornblowers were just enjoying the spectacle and urging on your heroism, Frank.

You said the woman's car wouldn't start in front of your car. Maybe if you'd put her car behind your car (or rather, put your car in front of hers since hers wouldn't move) it would have started. Worth a try, doncha think? grin

HUNTERF Wed 24-Jul-13 12:07:49

Bags

I don't think so.
I decided not to try to get the car started as it was 61 registration and it was covered by the Ford breakdown service.
The woman told me the car was due for service yesterday and it was booked in for a service tomorrow but that should not have been a problem.

Frank

Bags Wed 24-Jul-13 12:11:25

Indeed not, Frank.

How does one tell how old a car is nowadays, apart from rust and moss growing on it and stuff like that? I mean, from number plates? I lost track of how to do it when they changed the format.

Ariadne Wed 24-Jul-13 12:17:57

Oh, is that place - Sutton Coldfield - posh? All I've ever hear of it until recently was that there was some sort of TV transmitter there.

Butty Wed 24-Jul-13 12:19:04

If Frank comes back with a comprehensive answer, B, then that will show his love of numbers........hmm

Frank You're very specific about numbers aren't you?

Aka Wed 24-Jul-13 12:19:50

I definitely thinking they were blowing their horns in admiration and to urge you on grin

Bags Wed 24-Jul-13 12:30:23

He doesn't always reply to my questions, butty! I can't tell you how devastating it is sad

Movedalot Wed 24-Jul-13 12:37:33

No Ariadne SC is not particularly posh, plenty of ordinary housing there. However, the bit near the mast, which is actually called Four Oaks, is quite posh.

gillybob Wed 24-Jul-13 12:45:08

Recently I was just about to enter a roundabout when an Asda van passed me. The side doors flew open and the contents of the van spilled out all over the road. The driver obviously hadn't secured the doors properly and he took the roundabout a bit too fast. The cars behind me started hooting and feeling a bit sorry for the Asda driver I got out of my car and helped him pick everything up. Miserable (men) in the cars behind couldnt see the funny side and just sat there hooting while me and this young guy chased apples and tins of beans up the road! grin

Aka Wed 24-Jul-13 12:45:33

There, there Bags just go and lie down in a darkened room until your devastation is soothed. Frank how could you upset Bags like this?

Aka Wed 24-Jul-13 12:46:56

gilly grin

Bags Wed 24-Jul-13 13:15:43

It's driving me to wine, aka.

#timeforapartythread

KatyK Wed 24-Jul-13 13:35:21

Sutton Coldfield has a 'posh' reputation. Some fantastic properties and some not so. I don't live there but quite near. My daughter and grand-daughter were both born in Sutton as it's our nearest hospital. My GD goes to school in Sutton. We are far from posh !

Charleygirl Wed 24-Jul-13 13:35:30

Frank is a perfect gentleman helping a lady/fellow motorist in distress.

HUNTERF Wed 24-Jul-13 14:14:17

Charleygirl

Really I wanted to get the traffic moving and stop her panicking.
I only looked to see if there was anything obvious wrong but I don't know a lot about modern cars.
As the car was covered by the RAC and they said they would be along in about 20 minutes I asked if she was happy to wait by herself.
In view of the conditions I gave her a bottle of water and then left.

Frank

gracesmum Wed 24-Jul-13 14:20:33

It is also posible that the two "hooting" ladies were refugees from the women's only gym classes and recognised you as the man who invaded their girly world?

j08 Wed 24-Jul-13 14:25:18

here you are Bags.

Men all have this knowledge in them from birth. That's not sexist. It's fact. (hmm)

HUNTERF Wed 24-Jul-13 14:58:28

gracesmum

They could also be friends of my father's ex who I refused to give the house to when Dad died.

Frank

Ana Wed 24-Jul-13 15:09:43

Yes, that'll be it, Frank! Your life is certainly full of coincidences, isn't it...confused