STOP
Everyone log out, close down their PCs and laptops, make a cuppa and GO TO BED
If this thread continues to get nastier and nastier, we could be seeing mass deletions and bans, there will be no need for anyone to leave Gransnet, there will be no-one left to leave.
If you ask me, it would be a good thing if the whole thread were deleted, not for the posts that started it but for the sheer spitefulness that has been shown. A stranger would be forgiven for thinking that the main aim of some of it is to drive out many of the posters and destroy the forum altogether.
Well, you could be nearer to that goal than you think. Why would anyone go to the trouble of posting anything interesting, funny, supportive, thoughtful, when all this bile and venom is being thrown about?
I don't think I want to!