GILF

oh look at him He looks somehow vulnerable

Martin Shaw.

Good choice Woody. I dunno how we're gonna share these out.

I'll have a share of Piers Brosnan please!!

When I was in my early 20s I really fancied Charlton Heston!
And in my 30s and 40s I was totally besotted with Imran Khan (the cricketer). Chatted to him a few times as ex-husband was a cricketer. Gorgeous ….

I'm with phoenix on this one. I just want a man to find me interesting and fun to be with [and vice versa] and the imagination never goes beyond talking. It's dispiriting when you think you're saying something very profound and you know they're just itching to go and chat with young miss pretty thing across the room . Nonu; Ryan Gosling has got eyes that are too close together [although I'm the only person I know who thinks it]. He's all ours !

I agree with you Tegan, I would like a man to find me interesting and good company. In my last job I used to have interesting conversations with a man from upstairs when we met in the communal kitchen. He seemed such a genuine person. About my age, not good looking, but nice. It was quite a flattering experience to feel that a man actually liked talking to me, made me realise how rarely that happens to women of a certain age (or is it just me?)

Why can't being interesting and good company but also physically fanciable go together … whatever one's age???

If only, NannaAnna...[sigh]!

Sometimes just a lovely dinner and sparkling conversation would do. How about Charles Dance - he has such a lovely voice, and a good sense of humour, too!

If the abbreviation GILF is based on the preppy high school and college boys' arrogant use of MILF, then conversation, flowers, dinner and romance play no part – it just refers to someone you want to fuck. Not much honesty here then.

What are you saying Absent?! It is based on Justine's use of MILF in the April Fool joke.

And we know what it means.

*Dahlia , lovely dinner and sparkling conversation,blow that--, just get down and dirty--.
Time and tide , I am NOT getting any younger !!

Yes, we all know what the letters stand for, absent
Do try to keep up!

Of course you do Ana but no one here is suggesting fucking just dreamy romantic interludes. Mind you, if it has to be a grandfather…

How do you know what we have in mind Absent?

The usual way – because I read the posts jingl

And when has a post on here said we would like to sit and read a book with the chosen GILF?

Nonu!! I love you I am living the dream!

Ooh, Lona, you lucky thing!

Which one are you married to Lona?!

LONA DO TELL, I am all agog !!
Won"t sleep tonight !!

jingl Read a book? What book? What are you talking about? Who has mentioned a book apart from you? I think you might need a nice lie down – without a grandfather and without a book for the time being. Perhaps an ice pack…

I have always fancied Martin Shaw. I think he has matured nicely.

Can't do that at the moment Absent but having a nice sit down (and eat) in the Galleries lounge at Heathrow.

It was simply a rough guess at alternatives to......the other thing

How about HRH the esteemed D or E? Anybody see the new HIGNFU last night and the D of E's alleged reaction to the papal gift? What the xxxx's this?