Exercising your editorial prerogative, Anya?
if you've nothing constructive to add, best say nothing at all ...it's not up to you to tell other people what advice to take
Hmm, I was not aware of actually giving any advice on Ginette's marital problems although I do admit to responding to the OP on the subject of "empty nest syndrome". Others such as Elegran, janerowena, GillT57, Jingl. Ana, Riverwalk,Mishap and even you yourself ("ring Samaritans") have made practical suggestions which do not seem to have borne fruit.
Actually in my previous post I was questioning soontobe's interpretation of the time frame. Do I have your gracious permission to do that?
As for your waspish counsel of "giving the benefit of the doubt in case I do more harm than good" - it refers to exactly what?