I think that you have to deal with the baby that you have and they have not read the books!
I can't agree with her on everything. e.g. swaddling babies to make them feel secure. Mine didn't want to be swaddled, I knew that from the womb, his arms were always moving freely. I only tried it once and he had to put enormous effort into freeing them. I only tried it because the midwife asserted that 'all' babies liked it.
I think that you should wait and see what you get. Pointless doing attachment parenting if your baby wants their own space.
Do what suits you and the baby.
It is ridiculous to think you can say something is good for all babies they are all different. You wouldn't say something was good for all grandmothers (what one likes another loathes) and yet we do it for babies!
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