I think that was the whole point of it, hapgran.
Disgruntled, my husband had been in pain for 15 years, since he fell off a ladder and fractured his spine.
The last three weeks of his life, when he was dying from a brain tumour, and he could have had permanent morphine from a driver, he had no pain whatsoever. I put it down to the treatment from the hospice at home nurses.
Support and friendship for those whose lives have been affected by estrangement.


