I have done so much for her and her husband and my grandson. The bank of Grandma has been endless for years! They are lovely when they visit but in between there are very few phone calls - never one to say "How are you?" and occasional brief texts seem to be the impersonal preference! My grandson is never given the suggestion of "why don't you phone Grandma to say goodnight?" I've been ill with pneumonia and I've had one phone call and a text - and I looked after my grandson during half-term! I had them all for 5 days at Christmas, spent a fortune on food, presents, pantomime tickets. I was given a couple of mugs and some sweets from them, and a home-made cardboard box spaceship from my grandson as a Christmas present. I've given them a house, so they have no mortgage. NO, I never mention all these things! But I never seem to phone at the right time, so I don't like to. My daughter was brilliant when I had a hip replacement, at the hospital every day and during my recovery - 2 years ago. Even the smallest thing she buys on my behalf she recharges to our joint bank account. I know she had a sad childhood and I should have divorced my husband when she was little and not waited until she was at University, but I just couldn't financially get away until then. I feel she is emotionally distanced, even though I know deep down she loves me. I am in my mid-70's, just want to know they think about me sometimes. A phone call every few days would do it. Once every 2 weeks if I'm lucky at present! Am so depressed and don't want to tackle this. My son-in-law is lovely but not particularly sensitive. When I called today (after 3 days) just to speak to my grandson, he didn't even ask if I was recovering and said they were in a hurry because they were on their way out!
What do you think folks?
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