Can you be born unhappy?

Well, apparently, I'm an adventurer - which I'm pretty sure I'm not!

I am a Campaigner !

Well I never Anniebach you do surprise me

I double checked mine and I am still a defender. Apparently I should have been a nurse or a social worker . I always wanted to do something in the caring professions (would have loved to be a social worker but was always told I was too soft hearted and believed anyone's sob story) .

I am apparently a mediator!

Did you notice that when you reached the end of your explanation, you could go further and buy a Premium analysis? There is always a hook to get your money.

Oh yes that seems spot on for you Elegran

The voice of common sense and reason.

It was a surprise Gilly

Being soft hearted is good, so you may fall a sob story which is a con but better that than disbelieve a sob story which is true

As defender is spot on for you Gilly - looking after everyone and everything.

That was a far better personality quiz than most of the tripe on facebook.

I think I must take after my late grandma who was always trying, (but not always succeeding) to sort things out and keeping our little family together.

I am having a very melancholy day today.

Gillybob I m a defender too surprise surprise ?

Uncanny BlueBelle

I'm gonna try and do it on DH later by put he will spend far too much time analyzing every damned answer I will end up throwing the ipodpad at him.

I like an iPodpad too Gillybob

Another defender here! I think, though, that if I had taken the same test twenty years ago, the results would have been totally different. I am a lot less emotionally surefooted than I was when I was before I retired. I didn't have the time to worry about things and turn every situation inside out that I do now. I agree that we are not born unhappy but are products of our upbringing. I was inwardly very unhappy as a child, and as a young adult, and spent most of my life trying to turn that round and find the confidence I never had. Never quite managed it and in older age I seem to struggle again, which does lead to periods of gloom and despondency. Fortunately DH has enough optimism, good humour and confidence for a regiment, so I try and feed off him!

I only caught part of How to Help Children to Feel Happy, gillybob, & intend to listen to it fully on catch-up.

hildajenniJ - an interesting quiz, thanks.

Are there any other "Advocates" out there ?

I had a very cared for loved childhood but I was lonely as an only child and I think I was naturally lacking in confidence and that made it worse I came out of myself a bit as a teen and really built up confidence when I married and became a family until he started eroding it bit by bit doing a real good job on me and it was very easy to go back into my shell again

Gilly, if I had guessed - you would be a defender - by your DGD school appeal if nothing else. I am a virtuoso, no surprise that.

KatyK
Like yours, mine was pretty bad. But like kitty I annoy people with my optimism.
When a friend or family is in a state about some minor problem, I say: " did anyone die? .....no........so what's the problem?
My daughter was born a misarable baby, was a misarable child and is now a misarable adult, hey ho

Sorry gilly I didn't intend it as a criticism, just one of the ways to try to think positive. I'm the last person to tell others how they should think.

Oh I didn't take it as any kind of criticism, Nonnie

Oops posted too soon. Although I am very interested to learn more. You say you studied the subject. What exactly did you study ? Do you think parents are responsible for these kinds of feelings even when we become adults? Can not being told you are clever,pretty, good etc. When you are child affect us in later life without us realising it has done so?

I am a "consul" As is Bill Clinton
Thanks hildaj for link

"I am a "consul" As is Bill Clinton"
Me too.
Good questionnaire.

And me. I've possibly got more in common with Monica from Friends.