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Problems with the Mother in Law?

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Oopsadaisy12 Tue 27-Feb-18 08:06:31

There are so many posts on here from MILs who are desperate because, for some reason, they are unable to see their Grandchildren.
They all seem to have problems with the DILs, even though in most cases they say that their sons are happily married.
How many of us who married their sons have had a good relationship with the Mother in Law?

keffie Fri 02-Mar-18 18:29:21

The ex deceased MiL was a horrible piece of work. My mom in law of 15 plus years is lovely and like a 2nd mom

Oopsadaisy12 Fri 02-Mar-18 18:55:00

Jalimall, in her 90 s.

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Mar-18 20:11:39

Oopsadaisy
Sometimes it's being cantankerous that keeps people going!!

Mine was fine, if a little eccentric grin

Oopsadaisy12 Fri 02-Mar-18 20:31:49

That’s the thing though Jalimall, everything is said with a smile..... oh you made me cakes, they are so pretty! Well as you know I don’t eat them, so I’ll give them to the kids next door, they eat junk food.
That kind of thing.
Or, when my father was diagnosed with cancer, Well he won’t last long then, don’t bother to buy him a Christmas present. I’m afraid on that occasion I walked out.
Said with a smile grrrrrr.

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Mar-18 20:36:40

hmm we know someone like that Oopsadaisy

Oopsadaisy12 Fri 02-Mar-18 21:02:40

And she looks like a sweet old lady, everyone who meets her says how lovely she is! We, in the family just roll our eyes, if only they knew...

Oopsadaisy12 Fri 02-Mar-18 21:05:26

Having said all of that, she is having a tough time of it at the moment, as she has had a fall, so the family are all pitching in to help, especially in this awful weather.