Having just responded on MissAdventure’s thread about decluttering, I realised AGAIN how much that subject gets to me. I feel that the majority or the most important people in my life have been hoarders or untidy/messy people (parents, inlaws, partners, friends and some children)
Mess and clutter really get to me and it is recurring in my life and has made me overly minimalist and tidy. Also I have been moving around a lot and away from family which is painful but necessary and also had to go through a divorce. It makes me think that LETTING GO is my life lesson . Letting go of people, things and plans. Until I have grappled this issue and not find it so hard/painful/annoying it will recur until I learn to deal with it and does not frustrate me any more.
Do any of you find that there are certain issues have cropped up in your life repeatedly and do you regard these difficulties as life lessons?
Silent treatment - son
Caught in the act - neighbours
How to say it - 'no'