My home is very average and, for me, average is perfection!
I was brought up by a mother with germ phobia, OCD, a cleaning/arranging obsession - we could never relax. Now, when I've cleaned and tidied a room, I deliberately 'untidy' something (some cushions on the floor, a blanket thrown on a chair or bed, photos scattered on a table, a basket of books by the fireplace etc.) to make it cosy and casual.
(btw, I see that Marie Kondo (having told folk to chuck nearly everything away) now has a very expensive online homewares shop!)
I am not a nasty person but ……