oldgaijin I cannot add anymore to what others have said but please remember we are here for you. 
Just popping back to send loving thoughts to oldgaijin.
You are so brave and uncomplaining. I admire you.
Brave to ask for the truth. I go to oncology with DH for his treatment. We never ask what the prognosis is. We fear we would be very depressed if we were told what you were told. He's been on treatment for over 2 years, there is no cure but it's "managed" as long as there is life to enjoy and people to meet, he's happy, I am happy, though I feel sorry for myself too.
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oldgaijin sending kindest thoughts and
Bugger indeed oldgaijin. You’re a remarkable woman. Sending love and .
for Oldgiigin and for all who are not well.
Oldgaijin - only just got around to read today's thread - what a shock it was to hear your terrible news. I am truly humbled by your strength and bravery. I hope you have lots of support from those people surrounding you; you will certainly get lots of support from the wise and wonderful GN members on this thread. Take care
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