grandMattie
Although married, we spend a lot of time alone not being terribly sociable. But, it is nice to meet the odd person for coffee or lunch, go to my craft groups or W. I,, or whatever. It’s the enforced isolation which is getting to me.
I do a lot of crafts. Don’t see much of the family as they live too far, too busy to visit but don’t want us to take the train for fear of infection.
I KNOW I am very blessed being in full possession of my marbles and in rude health, but....
Good Morning everyone from a showers first thing but now blue and sunny South of France.
Longer post today (Urms and Sark) by way of explanation. All those already bored, please go and put the kettle on, this won't take long. 
I am afraid that recently I have had "the right hump!" No other way of putting it. I have been very angry and disappointed at the way the Forum, but more particularly the very sociable threads, have been infiltrated by those whose only wish is to derail and spoil the atmosphere for others. In hoping to have order restored by responding in the way that they are made to feel, some posters have then been unable to use the site. We are Grandmothers - I say that as a point to age and experience and nothing to do with how many Grandchildren we do or don't have - so why pander to idiots and treat us, the majority, like children? It beggars belief. So I retreat until I feel more calm and less likely to give an opinion which is going to place me in the same position. That's all I can do. Maybe others feel the same way. Clearly can't discuss it, but thanks sincerely for asking. 
Like Scentia I worry that I may say too much. Some threads started on this Forum which should promote debate, all too often deteriorate into abusive or spiteful slanging matches....well, what's the point of that. Isn't life difficult enough? In the real world I know/think that Urms and I would be on the opposite ends of the political spectrum. On here I see only warmth and support and interest and sometimes a good laugh. This is the feeling that keeps us coming back morning after morning - and long may it last.
In other news - Grandmattie I feel exactly the same. I am blessed with a wonderful DH and the fact that we're a team - but it can still feel solitary sometimes because, it doesn't stop me longing for the life that we had BC (before Covid!) I want to travel freely, stop somewhere for coffee, mix with people normally. Of course that day will come but ....please.....when? We all need something to look forward to and at the moment that's just not happening.
Yesterday went to the Vet with an uncooperative puss! The Vet diagnosed Cystitis, so I was pleased we took her. After treatment and a fair amount of bad temper (her not me), she went to sleep in her carrier. We then had, as his almost last appointment) a lovely long chat with the Vet about life generally, his hopes and dreams, our hopes and dreams. A friend then walked in to reception - someone he first met when they were 12. So we moved our 'party' to reception. It was so lovely to see them and be included in the banter and good humour. We left there feeling we had been to a meet up with friends and lots of laughter......despite having to shout through masks. This is what we are all missing, I think, particularly those of us who don't see their families.
M. le President speaking to the nation tomorrow evening. Not sure it will be good news - but hey ho.
Hurrah for sorting out your little pooch, Scentia, and feel better soon eh? Gwen, glad you're hearing better, mumofmadboys - you're a Star ! To all of you in pain or a low mood, sad or a bit discombobulated. Feel better and. brighter very soon.
Always lovely to be here on this thread where, it seems, everyone matters.
Hugs to you all from France.
