My sister in law always tried to correct him and tell him she was dead, which always upset him.
My sister got quite angry with me at one point because I was lying to Mum about Dad, LadyStardust
He'd died and she had known but clearly forgot. She didn't want to see him particularly. She'd just ask how he was and we told her that he was fine
Sister wanted to be honest but the staff in the home agreed with me so I managed to get her to stop telling Mum that Dad was dead
It seems kinder to me to just accept and not cause any unnecessary upset.
Mind you I remember telling her that Shirley Temple had died. Good grief. I thought she was going to pass out with horror. She clasped her hand to her mouth and her eyes were like saucers.
In fact she was far more upset about Shirley's demise than anything else we discussed in the four years of her vascular dementia.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.