Marydoll greetings from a very blustery Kent! I too tend to keep myself to myself as my granny would say. It’s only when things become really bad I own up to pain, stress or anger. I know that I am denying others the opportunity to help. I am the last person to ask for help but first to offer it! Your DH and family won’t want to breenge in but would I’m sure take on requests from you. What can you offer them in the way of helping you through this rough patch? As I get older ( I know I’m only 4months older than you!) , I listen more to my body. If I am tired, I sleep - whatever time of day it is. If I am not hungry, I don’t eat - even if I have just made Sunday dinner. I’m learning to be ‘self-ish’ ie thinking of me first. Believe me, as the eldest of eight children, that’s an alien concept. Your new title in May ( the P word) allows you to step back a little. No point in pushing yourself so much that you are forced into invalidity. Taking it easier isn’t the same as giving up or giving in, it’s being sensible. Having reconnected with you, I don’t want to miss out on that cup of coffee (...and Mars bar cake?) we said we would have.
Sorry to ‘go on’ at you but me and the rest of the GNers really care for you! X