Its so sad Sago,I hope you have a pleasant time together.I was able to meet my friend(on compassionate grounds as she was struggling with the loss of her son) She was able to pour out her heart and tell me about what happened.It was emotionally very hard and the sadness stayed with me for days.In usual times we would have been there for our friends,involved in practicle helping,hugs at the funeral and to just be on hand for them during their hardest time.Covid has taken so much.This will be a big step for your friend and will do her so much good to be able to talk about everything.The hardest thing is not being able to hug,myself and friend did as I couldn't just sit there while she completely broke down.Its all been so hard.I have met her since,safely,and although there were tears,it wasn't the same as the first visit and we were able to keep the distance.I hope you're friend is doing OK and I'm sure seeing you will help her alot 