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A little window of normality.....so excited.

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Sago Mon 29-Mar-21 09:39:33

Our dear friend was killed in a car accident the week before Christmas, his wife and two mutual friends are coming for lunch in the garden tomorrow.

It’s been so hard for our his widow as she has no children or family.
She hasn’t been able to mourn fully due to lockdown and I know we all need to remember our friend together.

The menu is planned, I’m starting the prep today and the weather forecast is fantastic.
I’m really so excited to be sitting in the sun sharing food and wine with dear friends.

I know it will be tinged with sadness but it will make the world feel a bit more normal again.

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Iam64 Mon 29-Mar-21 09:46:19

I hope it goes well Sago. What a year to face such tragedy

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Vickysponge Mon 29-Mar-21 09:47:56

How lovely. Hope all goes well for you and your dear friend. Enjoy.

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Marmight Mon 29-Mar-21 09:51:08

That’s so sad Sago. I hope you have a good day with your friends. So many people have been unable to grieve properly ?

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Redhead56 Mon 29-Mar-21 09:52:23

Have a lovely lunch with your friends.

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crazyH Mon 29-Mar-21 09:57:09

So sad for your friend - she is lucky to have friends like you. Have a nice day tomorrow...

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PurpleStar Mon 29-Mar-21 10:02:17

Its so sad Sago,I hope you have a pleasant time together.I was able to meet my friend(on compassionate grounds as she was struggling with the loss of her son) She was able to pour out her heart and tell me about what happened.It was emotionally very hard and the sadness stayed with me for days.In usual times we would have been there for our friends,involved in practicle helping,hugs at the funeral and to just be on hand for them during their hardest time.Covid has taken so much.This will be a big step for your friend and will do her so much good to be able to talk about everything.The hardest thing is not being able to hug,myself and friend did as I couldn't just sit there while she completely broke down.Its all been so hard.I have met her since,safely,and although there were tears,it wasn't the same as the first visit and we were able to keep the distance.I hope you're friend is doing OK and I'm sure seeing you will help her alot flowers

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Ashcombe Mon 29-Mar-21 10:08:36

Your poor friend! I’m sure the rest of you will help her commemorate her DH's life as you share your recollections of happier times. The sunshine will be a blessing to add to the special day you are planning and your friend will appreciate your thoughtfulness.

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Polarbear2 Mon 29-Mar-21 10:11:21

Hope you have a lovely day. ❤️

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hulahoop Mon 29-Mar-21 10:26:06

Have a lovely day .

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Aveline Mon 29-Mar-21 12:03:07

What a lovely plan. I'm sure it will be enjoyable for all yet therapeutic too. I hope it goes well. You are a good friend which is just what this person needs.

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muse Mon 29-Mar-21 12:08:27

What a lovely caring friend you are. flowers. Enjoy the meal in your garden.

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Grandmadinosaur Mon 29-Mar-21 12:12:25

What a lovely gesture. I hope your friend can take comfort with being able to get together. Enjoy your lunch.

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baubles Mon 29-Mar-21 12:14:12

Wishing you a lovely day tomorrow. I’m sure you will be a great comfort to your friend.

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Casdon Mon 29-Mar-21 12:22:44

It’s so lucky that there’s an unseasonably warm day expected for tomorrow so that you can do this for your friend, I hope it brightens a dark time for her.

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V3ra Mon 29-Mar-21 22:07:29

How lovely to finally be able to get together and support each other after your friend's tragic death. I hope it helps you all x

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