I understand where Baggs is coming from tbh. I think a lot of the beauty industry is aimed at making us feel insecure about ourselves. I remember I was offered a swanky facial thing that involved water and electrons or something, all the stars do it etc, it's better than botox and they let me have a session for a very cut price, presumably so they could train the staff. Of course I went a long
but the whole before and after the session was aimed at making me feel bad about my skin so I would book another and buy other products. I've also been to 'other' appointments where I have been made to feel insecure about something appearance wise, like having grey hairs. I do have a few but I have realised during lockdown/covid/the last 18 months I am actually not that grey at all and am actually quite a nice natural brown.
I thought it was just me but one of the most confident people I know said she was approached ina shopping centre wrt buying some face cream and the woman said to her, are you not bothered about all those lines on your face?
I doubt anyone would market products towards men over 45 like that.
I don't think it matters if you like having your nails done, or hair or anything else really, it's the implication we need to have a facial, use expensive cream, have a tan that I feel is unpalatable. We do not need to, we can look however we want to.