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Shinamae Wed 12-May-21 10:12:39

I am agnostic but would not dream of trying to force anybody into my way of thinking nor would I be at all interested in them pontificating on their religion

Peasblossom Wed 12-May-21 10:11:21

Oh that’s just what I’ve been saying —on another thread— except I called it being boring rather than nasty.

I don’t know why. A need to control?

timetogo2016 Wed 12-May-21 10:10:15

She is clearly aa bully Becket.
I too am a believer and tbh if it was me she was speaking to,it would have been her who walked away as i would have hit the roof.
I respect everyones point of view on religion.
Please don`t let ignorant people like her upset you.

Beckett Wed 12-May-21 10:05:22

I was out for a walk yesterday (dodging the showers) when I bumped into a friend who I haven't seen for some time so we stopped for a chat. She was with someone I didn't know and suddenly this person interrupted the conversation to point out I was wearing a crucifix. She then went into a long monologue stating that she was an athiest and continued to say I was "misguided" to believe in an "invisible friend who didn't exist".

My friend, aware that my faith is a big part of my life and that it has helped me through some very difficult times, attempted to change the subject but this woman would not be deflected. In the end I said I had to go and left. I have to say the encounter did upset me, not because she could shake my faith but because she was so aggressive in her attitude - I respected her decision not to believe in God so why couldn't she respect that I did.

Now I understand people have strong feelings about things but why do they feel it necessary to disrespect and deride the beliefs of others .