It really is like talking to yourself, isn't it, Mollygo?
We all keep saying that we are not against the trans community, but this is ignored. Instead there are diversionary posts questioning our feminism, posts telling us to get 'life experience', posts telling us to read more but not to be theoretical, posts telling us that being concerned about men competing in women's categories in sport is ignoring the plight of black female athletes and so on.
I repeat - it is impossible to debate with those who will not engage, either because they ignore the main point that we are making, think that they know our minds better than we do, or because they leave the thread when they have no answers.