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Well, what a surprise!

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phoenix Fri 06-Aug-21 17:14:54

To see that Mawbe had posted a birthday message to me on Wednesday 4th August!

I had quite a few surprises that day!smile When Mr P opened the front door to let Oliver Sprout in (he was rather a soggy moggy, his own fault for for going out in the rain. He does it because he likes being rubbed dry!)

But I digress. Mr P said "I think you'd better come and have a look. So being in an affable sort of mood, I did.

Well, you could have knocked me down with a Tena Lady wrapper!

There was a cluster of balloons with helium numbers 6 &3 attached, a rather small balloon arch (handy if you were expecting a visit from a troop of little people, which I believe is the correct term to use, and a good hostess should always be ready to cater for all types of guest. None arrived though.confused ) and a beautiful plant.

Later a friend arrived with a delicious apple and almond tray bake, complete with candles and sparklers! grin, then another friend with flowers and champagne!

I had lots of cards (more than usual) and Mr P cooked a delicious mealsmile

It really was a fabulous birthday, which was great, because you see it will be my last.

I was diagnosed with terminal cancer back in mid December and despite the best efforts of all staff involved, the prognosis given during my last consultation in July, was that I had about 3 months sad

I won't bore you with details of the various treatments I had, but will reassure you that I'm still pottering about and enjoying what I do.smile

Please don't inundate me with PM's. I would feel that I had to respond to each one,and my time and energy have to be used carefully these days (quite interesting planning ones own funeral though wink ) but I will read any posts on this thread.

With love, and every good wish for a successful gammon at Christmas!

phoenix

xxxxw

glammanana Tue 17-Aug-21 11:41:22

Such a special lady is our Phoenix so many stories which had your sides splitting with laughter about Mr P's escapades,what a lady she is she will be missed by everyone on GN we have known each other since day one I think and although we didn't pm as much the past few years I will always treasure her friendship specially when she was looking for a giant tie -back for her door curtain years ago and with me working in a charity shop I found one for her you would think I had sent her the crown jewels she was so grateful such a wonderful lady.I feel so sad and hope that she is comfortable surrounded by her loving family and her precious cats xxx

kittylester Tue 17-Aug-21 12:05:51

Aren't we lucky to have 'known' her for so long.

muse Tue 17-Aug-21 21:48:12

I think perhaps that I am amongst many of the newer GNers that will have come back a few times to this thread. I discovered it on Sunday thanks to a nudge in this direction and am discovering more and more about Phoenix, thanks to those who followed her posts and got to know her very well.

Tonight I took Phoenix's advice and watched Pata Pata. A few of you have mentioned it too. Thank you for the link Riverwalk.

I shall follow the update thread but keep popping back here.

Callistemon Tue 17-Aug-21 23:00:32

kittylester

Aren't we lucky to have 'known' her for so long.

Yes, she has certainly enriched our lives

Marydoll Wed 18-Aug-21 11:29:36

Our beloved Phoenix passed away early this morning, in the loving arms of family and her two close friends. Please see the updated thread and in future post all comments there.
It becomes confusing, when two threads are running about the same thing.
Thank you all for all your kind and loving posts.

www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1299918-Phoenix-An-updated-Thre