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Phoenix: An updated Thread.

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Marydoll Tue 17-Aug-21 07:16:53

Some of you may have missed the thread started by our cherished friend, Phoenix, informing Gransnetters of her illness and the reason for her recent absence from GN. It has been suggested that a new thread is started, directing her friends to the original thread, where she let us know of her terminal diagnosis.
www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1299545-Well-what-a-surprise?msgid=28873117#28873117

Sadly, Phoenix is no longer able to read your messages or PMs, but has said how she, her family and close friends have found comfort in the love and support, you have shown her.

This thread will try and keep you all updated, with news provided by a Gransnetter, who is in daily in contact with the family.

A heartbreaking time for us all.

NfkDumpling Thu 26-Aug-21 21:59:15

Marie Curie it is then. Are you allowed to tell us the undertaker?

MawBe Thu 26-Aug-21 22:07:02

I’m afraid I don’t know but will ask.

NfkDumpling Thu 26-Aug-21 22:19:38

Thanks

M0nica Fri 27-Aug-21 07:22:31

I do not think undertakers accept donations to pass onto charity now. I have a vague memory that some new financial regulation stopped that some years ago.

I know that I have been asked to send the money directly to the charity with a name attached when donating in recent years.

NfkDumpling Fri 27-Aug-21 07:34:16

Okay M0nica. Will do.

silverlining48 Fri 27-Aug-21 07:42:37

I am happy to contribute to Marie Curie. RIP Phoenix x

nadateturbe Fri 27-Aug-21 08:02:19

In NI some funeral directors have a tribute page where you can donate to the charity of the persons choice and add a tribute.

nadateturbe Fri 27-Aug-21 09:07:18

I couldn't find anything like that for Phoenix.

MawBe Fri 27-Aug-21 10:09:03

For information

www.normanlockandson.co.uk/

Scentia Fri 27-Aug-21 10:12:34

When you donate to Marie Curie it asks for a name of a person you wish to dedicate it to.

MawBe Fri 27-Aug-21 10:45:29

Scentia

When you donate to Marie Curie it asks for a name of a person you wish to dedicate it to.

See my post of 20 August - Rachel Hudson

MawBe Fri 27-Aug-21 10:46:47

26 August 19.17 - finger slipped ?

Scentia Fri 27-Aug-21 12:40:14

Maw yes I did put Rachel’s name.
I was just saying because people wanted to go through the undertaker and it probably isn’t necessary.

ixion Sat 28-Aug-21 18:59:10

I am deeply comforted by the fact that Phoenix and those around her drew support and care from their Marie Curie nurses.
It was 33 years ago that my cousin, aged just 18, was tasked with caring for my Aunt at home and our family are so grateful for all that they did - and, indeed, continue to do for others.