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Phoenix: An updated Thread.

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Marydoll Tue 17-Aug-21 07:16:53

Some of you may have missed the thread started by our cherished friend, Phoenix, informing Gransnetters of her illness and the reason for her recent absence from GN. It has been suggested that a new thread is started, directing her friends to the original thread, where she let us know of her terminal diagnosis.
www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1299545-Well-what-a-surprise?msgid=28873117#28873117

Sadly, Phoenix is no longer able to read your messages or PMs, but has said how she, her family and close friends have found comfort in the love and support, you have shown her.

This thread will try and keep you all updated, with news provided by a Gransnetter, who is in daily in contact with the family.

A heartbreaking time for us all.

V3ra Thu 19-Aug-21 11:21:02

I always sat down to read Phoenix's posts with a big grin on my face ? and a sneaky sympathy for the well- meaning MrP who always tried his best!
The affection between them shone through every anectdote ?

FannyCornforth Thu 19-Aug-21 10:58:03

Hello everyone
My sincere condolences to all of the dear friends of pheonix here.

I only knew Pheonix very briefly.
My own abiding memory will be that her mum went out with the legendary Jim Dale. I asked pheonix if her mother was very beautiful, and she replied ‘yes, she was rather’.
I know that pheonix was rather beautiful too, inside and out.

So, friends of Pheonix, you are in my thoughts, especially Mary and Karen.
You really are a lovely lot. flowers ♥️

MawBe Thu 19-Aug-21 10:42:55

Lisagran

I expect Minnie and Oliver Sprout are pretty bereft sad. Miss you, Phoenix x

That’s a sad, but lovely picture Lisagran

Lisagran Thu 19-Aug-21 10:20:18

I expect Minnie and Oliver Sprout are pretty bereft sad. Miss you, Phoenix x

Doodle Thu 19-Aug-21 10:17:08

Marydoll and Maw lovely posts. I’m sure your support and companionship (and that of the rest of the Doghouse Grans) meant so much to Phoenix and helped her through a dreadful time. I’m pleased she kept her humour to the end. A truly lovely person.

BlueSapphire Thu 19-Aug-21 08:29:25

Very sad news; thinking of her family and friends. RIP Phoenix.

grannysyb Thu 19-Aug-21 07:57:47

Such sad news, she will be missed by so many, even though they never met her in real life. Condolences to her family. Thanks to Maw and Marydoll for keeping us updated.

MawBe Thu 19-Aug-21 07:53:54

Aw Marydoll you are very kind!
Yes, the Doghouse Grans proved a lifeline in more ways than one when a popular poster such as Phoenix and others were inexplicably consigned to outer darkness. I can only think that her quirky SOH somehow went over certain heads . But that is in the past and (perhaps ironically) resulted in more friendship and joy than anyone could have anticipated.
That is, for me, Phoenix’s legacy.
That for me is “the spirit of Gransnet”. flowers

Marydoll Thu 19-Aug-21 07:44:55

Thank you all for your lovely comments and messages about Phoenix Having to tell her friends on here the sad news, was a day, we were all dreading.

I raise my non alcoholic glass to Team Phoenix/The Doghouse Grans and affiliated members, who supported Phoenix since she first became ill in December. True and genuine friendship, is beyond any treasure. I have to admit that when I first came on GN all those years ago, I found Phoenix quite scary (and some of the others too!) I couldn't have got it more wrong!
At my age, I never considered nor expected to feel such affection for a group of people, whom I have never met. ( Apart from one, who lives near me). That is your wonderful legacy, Phoenix. Thank you.

My hearfelt thanks must go to MawB, who in the last few weeks became the link between us and the family and who carried that dreadful burden of telling us all yesterday morning and then posting the news on this thread.

Phoenix, you are at peace now.

shysal Thu 19-Aug-21 07:33:26

What a moving interview! I was surprised to hear that she hadn't got a west country accent, I always imagined her funny tales that way.

Lucca Thu 19-Aug-21 07:26:27

SueDonim

Oh my goodness, that interview. ??? What a trooper. How extraordinary to go through what Phoenix was going through and yet sound so…normal, as though nothing at all was wrong. I knew she’d lost her son, I didn’t realise she had no other children.

Has anyone contacted You & Yours to let them know? I’m pretty sure she’ll have left a mighty impression on them. ❤️

In case anyone wants to listen on BBC Sounds it was you and yours on 13 July. Lovely to actually hear Phoenix’s voice.

mumofmadboys Thu 19-Aug-21 07:06:27

You will be much missed Phoenix. Best wishes to MrP and family and friends

mancgirl Wed 18-Aug-21 23:23:44

*Phoenix *flowers RIP

Gelisajams Wed 18-Aug-21 23:15:25

Rest in peace Phoenix.
Thank you Marydoll and Maw for all you have done to keep us informed. Much appreciated.

Granniesunite Wed 18-Aug-21 23:07:02

Rest in peace phoenix may the angels lead you into the paradise you so deserve.

paddyann54 Wed 18-Aug-21 23:01:39

Just came back to add my condolences for the sad loss of Phoenix ,my thoughts are with those who loved and will miss her.I'll keep a candle burning in her memory ,she will be missed by so many on here and I too remember her hilarious posts that often brightened my day .

Ellylanes1 Wed 18-Aug-21 22:53:54

Rest easy lovely lady.

ElaineI Wed 18-Aug-21 22:27:55

Sad to come home and hear this and my thoughts are with Mr P and the family. Thanks MawBe for the update and also condolences to all you ladies on this site who have become close supportive friends together. I will listen to the broadcast tomorrow so very grateful for the link.

tanith Wed 18-Aug-21 22:26:21

How very sad, fly high Phoenix flowers

CanadianGran Wed 18-Aug-21 22:13:32

Deepest condolences to Phoenix's family. She will be missed here.flowers

Justwidowed Wed 18-Aug-21 21:52:44

RIP Phoenix and condolences to your family and friends

SueDonim Wed 18-Aug-21 21:50:18

Oh my goodness, that interview. ??? What a trooper. How extraordinary to go through what Phoenix was going through and yet sound so…normal, as though nothing at all was wrong. I knew she’d lost her son, I didn’t realise she had no other children.

Has anyone contacted You & Yours to let them know? I’m pretty sure she’ll have left a mighty impression on them. ❤️

Grandmadinosaur Wed 18-Aug-21 21:47:16

Such sad news. RIP Phoenix and condolences to Mr P, family and friends. I hope they can take comfort from seeing how highly she is thought of.
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benjamina Wed 18-Aug-21 21:41:36

Today the world is a poorer place,

In time I am sure her family and friends will find a little comfort realising just how cherished Phoenix was.

Thanks so much to Marydoll & MawBe for keeping us all in touch.

Sad times flowers

morethan2 Wed 18-Aug-21 21:32:25

? I’m very saddened to hear the news of Phoenix’s. I always looked for her threads. She was a real character and that shone through all her contributions on gransnet. Condolences to her friends and family. She’ll be sadly missed