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Phoenix: An updated Thread.

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Marydoll Tue 17-Aug-21 07:16:53

Some of you may have missed the thread started by our cherished friend, Phoenix, informing Gransnetters of her illness and the reason for her recent absence from GN. It has been suggested that a new thread is started, directing her friends to the original thread, where she let us know of her terminal diagnosis.
www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1299545-Well-what-a-surprise?msgid=28873117#28873117

Sadly, Phoenix is no longer able to read your messages or PMs, but has said how she, her family and close friends have found comfort in the love and support, you have shown her.

This thread will try and keep you all updated, with news provided by a Gransnetter, who is in daily in contact with the family.

A heartbreaking time for us all.

Chewbacca Wed 18-Aug-21 10:45:28

To have a friend like that is the greatest treasure of all

Completely agree with this; and to get a friend that sticks with you, through thick and thin, right to the end, means that Phoenix must have been as good a friend to others as the friends she has around her now.

Daisytwoshoes Wed 18-Aug-21 11:02:59

I haven’t posted on here but read the threads daily
Thinking of Phoenix and her family at this very sad time.?

JaneJudge Wed 18-Aug-21 11:05:11

All my love to Phoenix and her loved ones. To bring so many people joy and laughter is a gift xx

MawBe Wed 18-Aug-21 11:11:21

Our dear friend Phoenix slipped away peacefully this morning with her husband and closest friend, Hollie by her side.

She was a unique person who touched many of our lives and would surely have approved of these words by Joyce Grenfell -




“If I should go before the rest of you
Break not a flower nor inscribe a stone,
Nor when I'm gone speak in a Sunday voice
But be the usual selves that I have known.
Weep if you must,
Parting is hell,
But life goes on,
So sing as well.”

Rest In Peace Phoenix
4 August 1958 - 18 August 2021

Grannmarie Wed 18-Aug-21 11:13:20

Rest in Peace, Phoenix. ???

Grannmarie Wed 18-Aug-21 11:14:14

Thank you, Mawbe.

Kate1949 Wed 18-Aug-21 11:14:54

Oh that's so sad. Rest in peace Phoenix.

Kate1949 Wed 18-Aug-21 11:15:16

Thank you Maw

Marydoll Wed 18-Aug-21 11:16:19

My heart is breaking. It was a privilege to be in Team Phoenix and to share her journey.

We laughed, we cried, we ranted, offered advice on wigs, but most of all we comforted and supported each other.

I have no other words. ?

lavenderzen Wed 18-Aug-21 11:16:53

RIP Pheonix flowers

merlotgran Wed 18-Aug-21 11:17:22

Thank you, Maw.

Sleep well, Phoenix

grandMattie Wed 18-Aug-21 11:18:37

Thank you Marydoll. Glad that her last moments were peaceful. flowers

BlueSky Wed 18-Aug-21 11:23:05

Oh Maw! RIP Phoenix x flowers

Grannmarie Wed 18-Aug-21 11:25:33

Sending love and prayers ???,
for comfort and consolation for all who loved Phoenix and are mourning her now.

Parsley3 Wed 18-Aug-21 11:25:52

RIP Phoenix?

Shinamae Wed 18-Aug-21 11:26:00

So sad, condolences …..?????

Helen657 Wed 18-Aug-21 11:26:22

RIP Phoenix x flowers

TillyTrotter Wed 18-Aug-21 11:27:29

At rest now Phoenix.
We all have the fondest memories of you and they will never leave us. ?
Thank you MawB, Marydoll and other friends who have kept updating ?

downtoearth Wed 18-Aug-21 11:27:39

Fly high phoenix RIP flowers

MawBe Wed 18-Aug-21 11:27:43

All those months ago, for those who remember, when some of us were consigned to the “doghouse”, a group of friends formed a very special bond as a result- who would have thought that good could have come out of such malicious intentions - but as a result we have been able to grow closer as friends, to share with and support each other through joy and sadness . And enjoy Rachel’s quirky sense of humour at first hand. Marydoll mentions wig choosing - oh yes, there were laughs as well.
Phoenix appeared on Radio 4’s “You and Yours” just a few weeks ago talking about coping with major events in one’s life. She was quite upfront about her illness and what shone through impressing the presenter and I am sure all who heard her, was her firm conviction that it’s “not the hand you are dealt, but how you play the cards”.

Yes, all those who “knew” her on GN will mourn her passing and miss her input, and those who got to know her personally, all the more so.”

Namsnanny Wed 18-Aug-21 11:28:35

Thank you Maw

My prayers and thoughts are for Phoenix and her family.flowers

ginny Wed 18-Aug-21 11:29:21

Such sad news. RIP ?

LauraNorder Wed 18-Aug-21 11:30:31

So sad, goodbye to our funny and lovely fellow gran x

Lucca Wed 18-Aug-21 11:32:38

Very very sad. She sounds like a remarkable lady. Thank you Maw for keeping us informed.

Chewbacca Wed 18-Aug-21 11:33:13

Beautifully expressed MawBe, thank you. Rachel would be pleased with that.