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Shinamae Thu 19-Aug-21 18:20:16

Just started a thread about this, could not post it and when I went back after refreshing it had just disappeared! So let’s try again.… A few months ago I moved my bedroom downstairs so that my son and his girlfriend could have my bedroom and use their bedroom as a lounge. I invested in some French doors and 1/2 is just a window with a skylight opening and the other half is an opening door, I am a bit concerned that the spiders might find it a bit easier to get to me now that I am downstairs so I have bought some peppermint oil That is mixed with water and liberally sprayed around the curtains, I have also put some oil on a piece of cotton wool and rub that round the frame of the window. I have had encounters with spiders in the past, once felt what I thought was a moth on my face,just nodding off and brushed it off and in the morning woke up to find a big spider about 3 inches from my face, also a blockage in my shower which I removed, being very shortsighted did not realise until I got out and looked in the sink where I had thrown it that it was again a big spider! Also I now never get into my bed since on getting into bed one night turning back the duvet there was a bloody great spider galloping up the bed and disappearing down the back of the headboard so now check pillows and duvet. As it is getting cooler I am sure they will be planning their route into my bedroom…??‍♀️??‍♀️?

NotTooOld Sat 21-Aug-21 12:23:35

MissAdventure grin grin grin
Perhaps if I left the hoover running for a while........but then I couldn't hear the TV......or the phone......omg. Will have to tell DH he can't go away.
Am off to order a sucky thing from Amazon before anyone tells me they don't work.

Teacheranne Sat 21-Aug-21 13:00:40

I recommend one of these, a bug catcher from Lakeland. You just put the end very close to the spider and switch on. It then hoovers up the spider, powerful even for big hairy ones, and you pop the cap bag on quick then dispose of them. I find some need to be shaken out as the tube is quite long - helpful to reach the ceiling.

It was not cheap but is very effective.

Teacheranne Sat 21-Aug-21 13:01:07

Pop the cap back on

NotTooOld Sat 21-Aug-21 14:56:30

Teacheranne - yes, that is what I am looking at. Was it about £12.99?

Shinamae Sat 21-Aug-21 16:27:48

Teacheranne

I recommend one of these, a bug catcher from Lakeland. You just put the end very close to the spider and switch on. It then hoovers up the spider, powerful even for big hairy ones, and you pop the cap bag on quick then dispose of them. I find some need to be shaken out as the tube is quite long - helpful to reach the ceiling.

It was not cheap but is very effective.

£12.99 on Amazon but then £3.50 for delivery which I think is a bit steep… but I am going to send one of the electronic devices back and get this instead I think. I will keep the other electronic device to put in my summerhouse when it is finally ready…

SueDonim Sat 21-Aug-21 18:06:36

I used to have one of those gadgets but it involved me having to get too close to my enemy. Also, the big ‘uns wouldn’t go up the tube!

A shoe wielded by Dh has the desired effect. grin

Sara1954 Sat 21-Aug-21 18:35:53

This is completely creeping me out!
I am so frightened of them, once autumn begins I’m a nervous wreck, shaking out clothes, checking my bedding, can’t sit still and relax at all.
I spray stuff everywhere, we have these electrical gadgets in most rooms, my husband vacuums all around the outside windows, but still they come!

mokryna Sat 21-Aug-21 18:50:27

I don’t open windows all year unless I am sitting watching on ‘spider watch’. Also, I have sealed all road the skirting boards. I know the largest can get through the smallest holes so it impossible to spider proof my third floor flat. (What a climb to get here). I don’t mind them outside but not inside. I wish I didn’t feel how I do. As I rolled down this page I couldn’t look at the photos in case someone had put a photo.

Shinamae Sat 21-Aug-21 19:04:41

I have got to have my windows open winter and summer so just have to take my chances with the arachnids ?

Shinamae Sat 21-Aug-21 19:08:32

Now if they look like this……… that I can cope with

Sara1954 Sat 21-Aug-21 19:33:21

I have been known on many occasions to get my husband home from work to get rid of one.
In the days before we had a phone, he once got home on a dark wet evening, to find me, and the children sat in the garden, because there was a spider in my daughters satchel, we had dropped it, and all run outside screaming.

MissAdventure Sat 21-Aug-21 20:18:12

I have had to persuade a total stranger to come into my flat and catch a spider, once.
Years ago, working a night shift, I woke up one of the residents to come and get a huge (grey, FURRY!) spider out of the sink.

Shinamae Sat 21-Aug-21 21:47:59

MissAdventure you do make me laugh ?? obviously not so much cutting your hand but wetting your pants!

Sara1954 Sat 21-Aug-21 22:04:25

Oh MissAdventure, you sound like me, I have yet to find anything that actually works.
I’m feeling really twitchy now, I’ll be checking everywhere tonight!

Sara1954 Sat 21-Aug-21 22:11:06

Those gadgets to catch them involve getting far too close to them, I could never do that.
In extreme emergencies I have used my vacuum cleaner, but then I have to leave it at the bottom of the garden for hours!

NotTooOld Sat 21-Aug-21 22:33:55

And I thought I was the only one terrified of the b*****s. Once when we had just moved into a new (to us) house and were unpacking I was stood under the open loft entrance and a monster one dropped on my head, then my shoulder. I hysterically screamed blue murder and wanted to call the estate agents immediately to get the property put back on the market. We ended up staying in that house for a good few years but I've never got over that feeling of horror and I've never stood under an open loft again. I'm another who spends the autumn peering into a room before entering, checking the bed before getting into it and moving the washing up bowl gingerly in case a monster is lurking. Spiders on white porcelain are the worst for me. All those legs showing up against the white. I'm always relieved when it's October and the worst of it has passed.

Fridayschild Sat 21-Aug-21 23:25:07

Here’s one of my catches in my lid catcher. Yes you do have to be quick and you do get a bit close but it doesn’t hurt them and I can see when I’ve caught them (and when they’ve been too quick) then I can take them outside and give them their marching orders! Ooh I am so brave! ???? (I am terrified and my heart’s in my mouth the whole time, but I do it.)

Shinamae Sat 21-Aug-21 23:28:35

Fridayschild

Here’s one of my catches in my lid catcher. Yes you do have to be quick and you do get a bit close but it doesn’t hurt them and I can see when I’ve caught them (and when they’ve been too quick) then I can take them outside and give them their marching orders! Ooh I am so brave! ???? (I am terrified and my heart’s in my mouth the whole time, but I do it.)

Oh my good god Fridayschild you deserve a medal!! ?‍♀️?

nanna8 Sat 21-Aug-21 23:35:09

When we were in Cambodia they were deep frying tarantulas and eating them. No one in the party we were with would try them except one brave German man who said they were quite tasty. What made me sick was that they didn’t kill them first, just dropped them live into the hot oil.
One night, several years ago now, I woke to a tickle on my face and it was a big huntsman( look like tarantulas). I was so scared I couldn’t scream. They are fairly harmless, not like some of the other ones we get from time to time.

Sara1954 Sun 22-Aug-21 07:42:29

NotTooOld
That is an experience I would never have recovered from, it makes me feel anxious to even imagine it.
I have just got up, given my bath robe a good examination, tiptoed around the bathroom peering into the bath and basin, and sat in the sofa not before checking under all the cushions.
My big thing if gaps, any gap where they might lurk is terrifying, and the way they move………

beth20 Sun 22-Aug-21 10:40:31

How is it, with all these spiders around, I am still plagued by flies?

Theoddbird Sun 22-Aug-21 10:44:10

You have to keep up with the mint. Do once a week. I live on a narrow boat and spiders congregate in the cratch. I regularly spray round the bow door to keep them out.

Magrithea Sun 22-Aug-21 10:53:16

If you can find it, watch Phill Jupitus on spiders - hilarious!

Growing0ldDisgracefully Sun 22-Aug-21 10:55:24

I don't mind them and have watched the garden variety, those with the beautiful markings, catching prey in their webs. Truly fascinating and ferocious little predators!
We did have one of the large brown ones living in a web in our bedroom for a while which didn't bother us (no, I'm not house proud!), until the night it overstepped its boundaries and ran over my bare shoulder in bed. I'm afraid it was rounded up and evicted out into the great outdoors and the web demolished. It didn't come back.

Hil1910 Sun 22-Aug-21 11:03:52

Conkers placed in the corners of rooms are local remedies to deter spiders where I live in Co. Durham. Must try and find a horse chestnut tree and start collecting as I found a massive spider in the kitchen last night after leaving the back door open when I went out to the bin. What worried me was where it’s mate was hiding???