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Uncritical support for trans ideology is a bad idea - a calm explanation of why this is.

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FarNorth Mon 22-Nov-21 12:23:47

A 6 min video from Catherine Robillard, explaining her views.

youtu.be/nnD5LXeGNPA .

Lucca Tue 23-Nov-21 18:00:24

Mollygo

Whose posts are you referring to as vitriolic GagaJo?
Who is complaining that someone has left?

I’ve noted the hiding the post, but that’s not a problem. If someone wants to do that, why not?
Clarify hounding.
I don’t need to repeat what Doodledog or Chewbacca have posted but I agree with their posts.
What do you think about the contents of the video, GagaJo? Or are you “not going to watch it” like another poster? It’s your right, but the thread started with the video.

Ok apparently it is me?
I just pointed out that VS is kind of shutting down any response/argument by saying she’s going to post and then hide the thread. Sorry but that is hardly vitriolic.

And for the second time ……I am not transphobic. I happen to agree with jK Rowling and am not about to apologise for it.

Chewbacca Tue 23-Nov-21 18:06:55

Sorry but that is hardly vitriolic.

Disagree with = vitriolic Lucca

Mollygo Tue 23-Nov-21 18:21:30

Chewbacca

^Sorry but that is hardly vitriolic.^

Disagree with = vitriolic Lucca

Thanks for clarifying that Chewbacca.

Iam64 Tue 23-Nov-21 18:45:20

Thanks for posting CR’s vid Farnorth. No surprise that I agree with her views.
I hope the way transactivists have dominated the debate is changing. Why should women be sidelined, discriminated against, marginalised, verbally abused, threatened with being raped to death, called Nazis and much more by men? There’s something misogynistic, women hating by this. Why should lesbian women be abused because they aren’t attracted to men who dress as women (often in a drag Queen kind of way) and say lesbians are transphobic because they don’t want sex that includes a penis

It’s like conversion therapy

Lucca Tue 23-Nov-21 21:40:24

Chewbacca

^Sorry but that is hardly vitriolic.^

Disagree with = vitriolic Lucca

Really ?

Chewbacca Tue 23-Nov-21 23:04:51

Apparently Lucca! Every time I've seen the phrase pile on and vitriol and I look back to check, I've only seen posts that just disagree with someone else's opinions. So I've come to the conclusion that pile on and vitriol = disagree for some people.

Rosie51 Wed 24-Nov-21 00:04:52

Yep Chewbacca is spot on. Dare to disagree with, or worse challenge, a point of view and you're not only transphobic you're oozing vitriol. Welcome to the debate grin

Doodledog Wed 24-Nov-21 08:54:49

I think that accusations like this are deliberately designed to stop the 'debate' on here, (not that we ever really get a debate, as the TRA participants refuse to engage, ignore questions, and generally stymie any attempt to discuss the issue).

We know that many people are reluctant to 'get involved' with threads that might get contentious, so seeing words like 'vitriol' bandied about is likely to put off anyone who feels like that, even if they have granddaughters or other young female relatives and are concerned about the way things are going for the female sex.

Lucca, I don't think I have ever seen a transphobic comment on GN. I have seen people say that sex is biology and therefore immutable. I have seen people argue against male sex offenders being housed in female jails. I have seen posts that express concern about the language being hijacked to remove reference to women, and people getting frustrated when those who disagree with these things can't or won't define what they think a woman is, even as they argue that a man can become one. None of that, IMO, is transphobic.

And pointing out that insisting on having a say and then hiding a thread is not in the spirit of debate is not vitriolic, either. It seems that appropriation of the English language doesn't stop at the erasure of women.

OnwardandUpward Wed 24-Nov-21 10:07:19

Thanks for posting the video FarNorth

It's shocking how this has all progressed and I applaud this lady Catherine for having the courage to speak out.

Elegran Wed 24-Nov-21 10:20:16

Doodledog Stonewall's motto is "No debate" It is not surprising that is taken by some to mean,, "Silence debate by any means, fair or foul."

Elegran Wed 24-Nov-21 10:29:50

Transpeople are not living in any rarified atmosphere on top of a distant mountain. They are living, working, playing, side by side with everyone else - most of whom accept them as they present themselves without any aggression or transphobia, but may have reservations about their own safety in certain situations, or about the language that describes them being distorted.

Stonewall are fomenting confrontation and resentment with their aggressive stance and their refusal to even believe that those reservations are genuine ones. They are not doing any favours to the individuals on whose behalf they claim to be working.

Chewbacca Wed 24-Nov-21 10:55:40

Stonewall are fomenting confrontation and resentment with their aggressive stance and ^their refusal to even believe that those reservations are genuine ones.^

I agree completely with everything in your post Elegran, particularly your last sentence. And it's when women express those reservations that we're told that it's us that have cause the divisions because we're transphobic.
Good post as always Doodledog

25Avalon Wed 24-Nov-21 11:01:27

Iam64 I do agree. I watched the video and was impressed with the quiet and lucid manner in which Catherine Robillard made her points.

Chewbacca Wed 24-Nov-21 11:44:56

From the Critic today:

More and more men with histories of boundary breaching are finding employment working in supposedly single-sex organisations and spaces now that they say they identify as women.

What makes this particularly shocking, especially given the grooming gang scandals of the last two decades, is that the females they’re choosing to work with are often the most vulnerable and voiceless in society, and the institutions that should be the most safeguarding aware are simply welcoming them.

Smileless2012 Wed 24-Nov-21 11:48:39

Excellent post Elegran. If there is a real desire to help people understand then communication is key and when communicating, language matters and that's what the vast majority of those contributing to these discussions say over and over again.

Expressing a point of view and then 'leaving' so you cannot be challenged IMO shows a distinct flaw in the argument being put forward. Indeed the failure of a few to answer questions asked is another example.

Stonewall could learn a lot from watching the video of Catherine Robillard; mature and well articulated.

Smileless2012 Wed 24-Nov-21 11:49:35

That is outrageous Chewbacca.

Iam64 Wed 24-Nov-21 12:07:57

That’s frightening Chewbacca. I’ll say again, the research is clear, predators find ways to get close to potential victims.

Doodledog Wed 24-Nov-21 12:15:19

Iam64

That’s frightening Chewbacca. I’ll say again, the research is clear, predators find ways to get close to potential victims.

It is, indeed, terrifying. When are we going to wake up and put a stop to it, before it is too late to turn back?

AGAA4 Wed 24-Nov-21 13:51:33

Easy isn't it. Just claim to be a woman and infiltrate places where women feel safe.
This is a real safety issue that is not being addressed for fear of being labelled transphobic.
It is also not helping genuine transwomen who have no intention of harming anyone and just want to live as women.

Smileless2012 Wed 24-Nov-21 14:47:30

How can we put a stop to it Doodledog when there are women supporting it?

FarNorth Wed 24-Nov-21 14:48:05

The Gender Recognition Act requires 2 years of 'living as a woman' before applying for a Gender Recognition Certificate.
So it has normalised men claiming to be women, in their everyday lives, and everyone else being expected to go along with it.
In my view, it should be abolished, and so should the idea of being 'trans'.
Present however you want but don't claim to be the opposite sex - that should be the way forward.
(Not much chance of it happening, tho)

FarNorth Wed 24-Nov-21 14:49:31

**The Gender Recognition Act should be abolished, I meant.

OnwardandUpward Wed 24-Nov-21 15:00:43

It should not be correct to send a * male genitally intact* trans person into a place that should be womens only. It should only be possible to be recognised as Female after genital reassignment surgery. Ideally before that those people would attend a prison tailored to trans people, so their needs could be met and they would not be in a position where vulnerable women feel at threat.

Chewbacca Wed 24-Nov-21 15:04:08

Abolishing the GRA isn't going to happen any time soon when we have a loud, aggressive and influential organisation like Stonewall who have managed to convince high profile organisations hat are desperate to ve seen as "inclusive to all". The cause is further hampered by natal women who, for whatever misguided reason, cannot/will not see the irreparable damage this is causing. They will eventually, but it will be far too late for those women and girls who are being harmed.

Doodledog Wed 24-Nov-21 15:11:44

Smileless2012

How can we put a stop to it Doodledog when there are women supporting it?

I suppose it's the women who support it whom I wish would wake up.

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