Big age gap in relationship, what is your view?

'deserve' children?

Strange choice of word.

Why not adopt?

Just because we can, doesn't mean we should.

I dont think children should be bought so it's a fairly easy moral dilemma for me.

OK, I know I shouldn't say it but I will. She looks so much older than her years. If someone had said she was 80, I would not have argued with that.

Apart from the sheer selfishness of this plan, did they not think about what it is going to be like for the child, everywhere people staring at it and making comments about it having a mother that looks like the great grandmother and the bullying and teasing it will get.

She cannot be 61, surely! Perhaps she’s a sun worshipper and/ or a smoker? She looks as if she has taken care of her figure, at least.

Expect she is too old to adopt GagaJo very selfish decision I think.

Oh Lord! What a click baity article!
And they’ve even got an Only Fans account for ‘saucier content’ ?

Attention seeking odd balls

Crikey - she has not aged well!

The Only Fans account is the key to what this is all about. It’s not true love after all.

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I won’t quote from it, but that’s a pretty offensive post Serendipity

You’ve said exactly what I was thinking MOnica.

I don't understand what a 20-odd year old 'normal' man would see in a 60-odd year old woman, unless there was an obvious hidden agenda (visa) that the woman is too stupid to see.

On the other hand, it is not questioned in the same way when you see a 60-odd year old man with a 20-odd year old woman. Usually the men are very rich though

Revolting post Serendipity. Why did you think that was funny?

MayBeMaw an offensive post?

It’s been deleted. That shows how offensive it was. How you could think it funny and want to share it is beyond me.

Well the whole point of Gransnet is precisely to put our own personal thoughts, views ideas, likes and dislikes is it not Germanshepherd

You disagree and i agree..

Have a nice day ......

I’m not sure our “personal freedom “ to put our own personal thoughts, views ideas, likes and dislikes extends to racism.

Racism ??????? Where is the racism is my post ?

Nor items that you find funny about women sharing graphic details of their sex lives. That’s why there are guidelines and the moderators delete posts which breach them, as did yours.

OK she looks far older than 60, but then if the groom was 60 and looking 80, and the bride 24, (and needing a visa) nobody would be so horrified. As for children it’s entirely up to them.

No thought for the potential children then?

It seems i owe a huge apology. I honestly didnt want this to be viewed as it has, that wasn't my intention.

Sorry to everyone.. x

Oh a lot of us would be horrified BlueSky. But I suspect a lot of 'us' would be women. Men think it's great to have an younger woman, never stopping to consider how the younger woman feels about their elderly body.