Times have changed a lot in the last 70 years. Back then, even if they had been here, the Queen probably wouldn’t have seen that much of her children. They would have had nannies looking after them, as would most of the aristocracy. She was in Malta from 1949-1951 I believe, and would have returned for the birth of Princess Anne in August 1950. Probably back here for quite a while before and after the birth.
Don’t suppose the QM was much involved with the nitty-gritty of child rearing either, the dirty nappies, sleepless nights, washing, ironing, spoon feeding, ….. just the nicer, more photogenic bits, i.e. supervising bathtime, reading a bedtime story, strolling in Windsor Great Park pushing the pram, ( with nanny hovering nearby).
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