Every sympathy Fidelity as something similar happened to my DH in 2020. It is a huge worry and difficult to rest and even to eat and drink. I was advised just to nibble what I could when I could but to make sure I kept fluid intakes up.
They will do all sorts of tests to find out what the problem is and you will be advised when they have a better idea. Meanwhile GN is here 24/7 and there is always some support, encouragement or just a listening ear . Don't be on your own. You can talk to us. Hope there's good news later.
Thankyou, each and every one of you.So kind of you to answer me so quickly. I have just made a mug of Red Tea and off to bed .I'll be no use to him if i cant 'get my head around things'. Keep forgetting what I have to do, or sort out. Just keep looking at his bed though and wishing he was there.
Hope it is nothing serious Fidelity perhaps it was resulting from the kidney appointment it’s awful when you can’t stay with them Hopefully you will get some better news today then you can go and have a sleep Take care and fingers crossed for you both ?
I hope you’ve managed to at least get some rest. It must be a very worrying time for both of you. I hope they find out, quickly, what the issue is and get him comfortable.
Hopefully they will have kept him comfortable over night with pain relief and you will get some positive news when you call. It’s awful for you not being able to be with him.
Keep in touch here Fudelity2, you will get lots of support.
Oh dear Fidelity2 you must be so worried, the feeling of not being able to be there or do anything makes everything worse, doesn’t it? I hope that he gets a diagnosis and sorted out quickly, fingers crossed all goes well ?
Husband taken to hospital about 12.30 am. Had severe pain across the top of his abdomen. I Can't sleep but so tired. He vomited his food back. We ate very late, as we had been to hospital appointment related to kidney problems. (I was allowed to go with him for that appointment) .There is nobodyI can talk to .Our son lives hundred miles away.