Some of us are now thinking of holidays and/or long overdue visits to family, this will involve packing. Are you in total charge of packing after minimal discussion, an overseer, or do you leave it until you get there to give your other half the benefit of your observations.
The entire procedure could be fraught with issues. If you do it all, you will doubtless have ‘forgotten’ to pack the disreputable, but ‘essential’ folding straw hat for example. If you oversee, there is a good chance the atmosphere could get decidedly cool before you even lock the front door. The final possibility is that something vital will have been left behind, or indeed packed, that the other party considered essential/dislikes intensely. It can lead to heated exchanges such as “did you really expect to spend the entirely holiday in flip flops./ your suit case wouldn’t weigh a ton had you not put three pairs of formal leather shoes in it for a beach holiday “.
Doubtless there are thousands of couples who sail through these dilemmas, but equally I know several who don’t!
Is there a perfect formula, or should the suitcases go straight back In the loft?.
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It’s been a while so I will start us off…….whats for supper and why?


. I start to think about what to take well in advance and lay it all out on the spare (kingsize) bed with a pile of ‘maybes’. It gets whittled down & packed the day before travel. I always roll clothes into ‘sausages’ which works so much better than flat packing. However hard I try, despite keeping an updated list on my iPad, I always forget something and take too much of another.