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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

Witzend Fri 13-May-22 16:09:47

I quite like ‘portly’ - as long as it doesn’t refer to me. ?. ‘Rather less slim than I used to be’ will do for me, thanks,

We used to have a rather portly cat.

MissAdventure Fri 13-May-22 16:10:43

Kryptonite

Ma Larkin. How beautiful was she.

Larkinesque. smile

activerelaxer Fri 13-May-22 16:12:35

DF used to say “built for comfort rather than speed”.

Mollygo Fri 13-May-22 16:39:32

Doodle

Fanny how about describing yourself in biblical terms………For I am fearfully and wonderfully made. ?

Superb!???

Camelotclub Fri 13-May-22 16:42:49

Americans say 'full figured'.

Nannabumble70 Fri 13-May-22 16:43:42

Well made, my mum used to say.

oodles Fri 13-May-22 17:50:00

I'm losing weight at the moment for medical reasons so would probably say that I'm working on not being overweight
But that won't mean clothes are easy to find, even when I hit the ok range. I do have big bones [many women's bracelets don't fit me and my rings are all large, I've not got fat fingers and wrists. I have a long back to waist measurement, many clothes end up with the waist being above my natural waist level, and having an ample bosom means that it is even worse at the front, often sleeves are too short too. Even when I reach my target weigh I will still need bigger sized clothes as the measurement across my back is wider than average, so difficult when it is a garment like a coat or jacket with no stretch in it, one in which I'll need to bring my arms round to do something at the front, ie I'm not standing like a soldier. Below the waist is a bit easier, I will be able to wear smaller sized skirts and trousers. Very wide feet and high insteps too so shoes and boots often a problem, and my feet and ankles aren't fat or swollen
Maybe I'm like a little teapot - short and stout

OldEnough2noBetter Fri 13-May-22 18:01:40

Describe by clothes size, not body size, e.g.

I bought a black and cream floral midi tea dress from Plumptious. The garment measures a comfortable 48” in the bust, with a generous 54” of gorgeous fabric across the hips. It fits as though it were made for me! According to Plumptious' size chart, this fits a UK size 18-22.

@Auntflo Plumptious is a beautiful portmanteau.

* We have a word in Scots, ‘sonsie’ which means ‘attractive and healthy in appearance’. It's similar to ‘Bonny’, which means ‘pretty’, not ‘fat’ shock

* ‘Ah, what a bonny lass!’ = That bloke’s into her wink

We don’t have a word for fat - probably because traditionally, we were too poor to get fat:

Oats: “A grain, which in England is generally given to horses, but in Scotland supports the people.” Samuel Johnson, Dictionary of the English Language (1755)

lilydily9 Fri 13-May-22 18:12:33

Curvy seems to be popular these days.

Taichinan Fri 13-May-22 18:17:48

How about 'a bit on the large size? Or well endowed? If you're anything like Kirsty Allsop you'll do though - I think she's lovely. And she has a WAIST!!

Jaxjacky Fri 13-May-22 18:21:47

Fair fa’ your honest, sonsie face.. OldEnough2noBetter

annodomini Fri 13-May-22 18:26:05

I'll stick with 'cuddly' as my DGC seem to appreciate me as I am.

win Fri 13-May-22 18:48:42

Full figured gets my vote, I don’t mind plumpish either

win Fri 13-May-22 18:49:54

How about having an ample figure?

win Fri 13-May-22 18:51:08

My OH suggests buxom I quite like that

GrammyGrammy Fri 13-May-22 18:54:17

Why would I want to give acceptability to being obese, lardy, porky, chubby-chops, overweight, massive etc?
Look what doing so has created. Acceptance and Encouragement of being obese has created a whole generation of Bessie Bunters before they even get out of their teens.

Design100 Fri 13-May-22 18:58:08

I ve always thought Kirsty large too
t b h. So understand what you meant.

Ukcarolm Fri 13-May-22 19:06:41

You can just say I've been over blessed! That's what I say when describing my bra size! lol

elleks Fri 13-May-22 19:11:15

I saw a great bookmark once-it had a teddy bear on it, and it said "I'm not far, I'm fluffy".

varian Fri 13-May-22 19:15:32

The last time I bought a dress, I was desperate to find something to were to a wedding.

When the assistant in Laura Ashley asked me what size I was I said "as big as you've got - gigantic - enormous" which she seemed to think was quite funny but they only go up to a size 18, which by some miracle I managed to fit into.

Callistemon21 Fri 13-May-22 19:21:44

Interestingly (or not!) I have some tops which are labelled Medium for USA and UK but are Large in France!

Callistemon21 Fri 13-May-22 19:22:16

Design100

I ve always thought Kirsty large too
t b h. So understand what you meant.

Kirsty is buxom.

pinkjj27 Fri 13-May-22 19:36:51

Do you need a label ? Why not just say I have chosen these dresses as they flatter my shape. Or I feel these dresses work well for my size or figure.
Surely the thread is about the dresses and that is what readers should be interested in and focusing on not how big or small you might be.

FannyCornforth Fri 13-May-22 19:39:39

I can’t find Design100’s post.
But I definitely didn’t mean to say that KA is ‘too large’; or myself for that matter.
I was using Kirstie as an example.
I think that she looks great.
And to be honest, I think that I look great too, if a little ‘matronly’ smile

rugbymumcumbria Fri 13-May-22 19:40:21

My Mum always said she was ‘Well Upholstered’.
I am too.