But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ ()
Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t
I was a fat child then teenager who became a morbidly obese adult. After losing over 7st with just over stone to go. I would say I am plump. Will never be skinny but don't want to be. At 5' 2" the 11st target will still make me overweight. But it's what I want. Was size 32 now 16. At 64 I am happy with my shape even the wrinkles and flabby bits. It's how you see yourself that matters.
I have a friend who will never say fat. I asked her what's the opposite of thin she said thick. I would rather be fat than called thick as that implies I am not intelligent. Which I am.
The best thing is to learn to love yourself warts and all. No one is perfect anyway perfect would be boring. Who wants to be boring.
I think that society is conditioned to think skinny/slim is the best way to look. It isn't helped by cadaverous models and actresses. Therefore the words associated with being rounder usually have negative connotations. I know about health benefits in being slim etc but that doesn't help women who aren't slim and who don't have a positive self image.
Why is ok to be negative about thin people? “Cadaverous models and actresses” but fat people must not be called fat.
Stout is something I prefer to drink. I’ve been trying to download a picture of KA at ‘her largest’ and I’m not allowed to. Think Jo Frost (Supernanny) too (but not at her largest)
Sigh. I am not being negative about slim people per se. I was commenting on emaciated models and actresses purporting to be the norm. Read up on how these young women were/are treated and the high incidence of eating disorders. Elizabeth. It is fine to be slim.
I referred to myself as fat and GS, then about 7, berated me. At school we aren’t allowed to say that word, we have to say ‘plump’. I’m still ‘plump’ 3 years on ?
I rather like these slightly old fashioned words, could this be you Fanny?
Rebenesquec - characteristic or reminiscent of the paintings of Rubens, especially with reference to his voluptuous female nudes. "a Rubenesque woman reclines on her chaise longue"