We said we wouldn’t do it again but we did…and got the same result

I have got rid of things for years on freegle. You need to have a short dialogue in the message box to see if a) they are serious or not and b) also to see if you feel comfortable giving them your address. I’ve only had one person not show up. It is frustrating!
If you just want a whole load taking away BHF are excellent.

You can also post ‘for free’ items on Gumtree, Facebook Market and Nextdoor. People who live close by are more likely to show up.

I do hope you can find one way of passing things on. It’s a really important thing nowadays to recycle as much as we can. And there are a lot of genuine people who are struggling financially.

I totally disagree. Nearly always had excellent results giving and getting on Freecycle. E.g. last week I put an office chair on Freecycle. Excellent condition but scuffed on arm. It was collected within 3 hours . I always give a good description and ask for a possible collection time. I wait for a polite request..chair went to second person as first just said can I have it. Very annoyed at collecting a mattress and bed. Bed a different size to that advertised and mattress very stained in spite of being told it was clean..we have got to take both to the tip. I will be more careful next time as some people aren't honest about the condition and use Freecycle as a free rubbish disposal site. But please don't take good stuff to the tip..we need to keep stuff out of landfill

I've had similar experiences Bytheway. After numerous letdowns, I now collect my stuff and store in the shed and take it down to a charity every few weeks. I do this on an ongoing basis to ensure that I do not let my hoarding habit take over.

Yes I recommend the larger charity shops who are reliable in collection and grateful for the donation. They do need fire labels on upholstered items, not unreasonable.
I'd also recommend charging a nominal amount for items on other sites, seems to make them more valuable to the recipient and so more worth picking up!

I use lots of sites… Trash Nothing, Freecycle, Olio, Pre-loved, Nextdoor, Shpock, Free Ads and even Facebook to give things away.

There’s ALWAYS people who promise to turn up and then don’t. I only give them one chance. If they don’t come they don’t get the item.

If there’s more than one person who asked I will offer it to them, or even the next person. But I do screen the responses. I don’t believe in first to ask will get, and I always respond to polite requests.

If I get ‘I want that thing’ then they’ll go to the bottom of my list. I figure if you want it, then ask. And it doesn’t cost anything to say please and thank you.

I did have some garden chairs that I no longer needed during lockdown, and put them outside the house with a sign on saying ‘Free - Please take these before I take them to the local tip tomorrow.’ They were gone within an hour, and a note was left on my doorstep saying ‘Thank you for the chairs,’ with a little bag of sweets. (Didn’t eat them tho)

Just have to be careful that whatever you put out isn’t wrecked or strewn across the street or you’ll be in trouble for fly tipping. Great if you have a garden - I don’t so had to keep an eye on the chairs which I’d placed against my house.

If someone is collecting, they would need to come between times suitable for me. Got fed up years ago of waiting around for people who didn’t turn up. I usually say anytime between 4-7pm after that I’m not available.

If you use Trash Nothing, your item can be posted on several sites in the area so long as you’ve joined up to them.

The other thing I do, is look for Wanted Ads, people looking for specific items, and message them asking if they’d like whatever they’re looking for. One elderly lady was amazed that I’d offered her a walking stick - and delivered it to her as I was passing her address later that day. Have stayed in touch and she now has a new lease of life and isn’t so worried about going out on her own.

Also, give lots of bits and pieces to playgroups/preschools, schools and scouts/cubs/brownies if they were suitable. (I used to teach so PLENTY of items to give away)

I used to donate regularly to charity shops, but can never find one now in my area, that can take things after 10am which is ridiculous in my opinion.

My last go to is a charity called Help to Collect, who support Kids Charity. They collected a huge amount of items from me in one go, and I was happy to see it all go. There’s lots of charities who will collect, you just need to Google which ones.

Good luck for future gifting @bytheway - but make sure to do things YOUR way, in YOUR timescale.

I have never used the kind of sites you describe, for the simple reason that as far as I know we don't have them in Denmark.

We have sites where you sell things, and my experience with them is much the same as the OPs. And our postal service has discontinued Cash on delivery service, so I am not willing to trust complete strangers who want things sent by post to pay me, either before or after they receive the goods.

What we did when we moved and had to get rid of stuff was to try to tailor our need to whoever we offered the things. There was only one charity interested in books, so when they had taken what they wanted, the rest was offered to hospices for the dying - who here, at least, are very grateful for light reading matter, as are clubs and care homes for Aids suffers.

We had considered prisons as recipients too, but did not need to contact them.

Clothes, shoes, bags, camping equipment and household utensils we packed up and distributed to various charity shops.

When we cleared my parents' home, I managed to sell a good deal of unwanted furniture, by simply opening the garage and sticking a sign outside. I had also put notices up in the local supermarket. It helped that there were a couple of weekends and public holidays at the time we wanted rid of stuff.

A table outside with stuff you want rid of and a notice: Help yourself - no charge, worked well too.

We are in a similar situation. Downsizing. I'm going to rent a storage unit, shift everything we don't want to that, and get a house clearance chap to give us a price to take the lot

Yes, I have used both freegle and freecycle. Mixed opinions really, but you do gets lots of time wasters, and people who promise they will come and never do. But also lots of lovely folk who are so grateful that they follow up with a thank you email, which makes all the grief worth while.

I'd recommend the British Heart Foundation, it just needs to be in good condition and if it's furniture it needs a fire safety label.

Facebook is great for getting rid of stuff. When we downsized, we put everything in good condition that a charity shop and relatives did not want outside the house, put a message on the local Facebook Marketplace and within minutes there were texts and calls. The whole lot disappeared in about 45 minutes.

Froglady

That meant to read soup maker not soul maker!!

Ooo I would have been interested in a soul maker 🤪🤣

You know what it is - because it’s free and no real investment it’s easy to not bother . However we got a splendid 1931 Singer sewing machine and travel cot from freecycle and give stuff but usually clothes and toys etc give to charity shops and offer free stuff to the neighbours via our road what’s app group - we never charge neighbors nor any others but one woman took my great aunts writing bureau which we have seen up for sale for £49 in a nearby sea side town . I look at it and consider buying it back as was my great aunts even tho too big for our house and not in good condition- altho somebody had polished it - for sale I presume .

IrishDancing

BHF are brilliant, haven’t let us down yet! Other buyers/recipients not so good, have regularly been let down by people who “will get back” to us but never do. So rude!

BritishHeart Foundation also do free labels on their website to enable postage of most everything else!

I had the sad task of emptying my parents house to prepare for sale this time last year. Covid was an issue with charity shops over stocked and a limit on how much they would take if brought to them. In the end it was 12 different organisations that took things from garden tools to a sewing machine. I had 25 boxes of 'bric a brac' that were taken along with larger items. I think Dorothy house. It was British Heart Foundation that were the best and took the unwanted sideboard, beds that others had left. The local Freegle group was very good and really no messing as I had a limited time to deal with things. It is possible to read over reviews of posters there before dealing with them. Lastly the Council collected three large items for a fee of I think £30.

We are also having a clear out and advertised many times very cheaply and the scams are untrue "I will send a carrier and he will give you gift vouchers, I am terminally ill so can't come, Will put a £100 into your paypal account and then the driver will bring the rest of the money"

In the end after selling dining room suite to nice guy phoned the local hospice and all being collected next week for their shop.

Some people have no shame and when I sent message back to one message saying "Don't bother, this is a scam" the reply was I am calling the Police as money gone in (it hadn't)
Beggars belief how people think and operate.

What a shame. I am into recycling where possible. Never used Freecycle, but have used Gumtree with very low prices for great condition stuff. But little response. Most stuff goes to charity shops.

Yes and yes also had alot of time wasters on there. A pre lit Xmas tree was picked up for a local church though so it felt good to see it being useful .

I’ve used Freecycle and latterly Freegle for nearly 20 years with very few problems except that I think far fewer people look at these sites nowadays because of all the other social media opportunities. Most of those who have collected stuff from me have been polite, punctual and pleased with what I’ve offered. I don’t deliver and no longer post anything as I wasn’t refunded the postage cost as promised. BHF, however, let me down badly when despite having received a photo of the sofa I’d offered and confirmed all was OK, they turned up and refused to take it. I’d travelled over 30 miles to meet them at the property (a holiday chalet being cleared prior to sale) but apparently the sofa wasn’t sellable because one back cushion was slightly faded even though it was otherwise in excellent condition. You have to remember that they are not interested in taking items for people in need - only to raise money for their charity. Sofas are notoriously difficult to re-home and we had to chop this one up and take it to the tip.

I’ve used Freegle and Freecycle many times over the past few years, both to give stuff and ask for specific items. I’ve never had a problem with people asking me to deliver or not turning up so I’m happy to use it.

I try an sell stuff on sites no interest unless you can deliver at no extra cost (annoying) they usually try to offer you less (annoying) if you put stuff on for free like flies an still want you to deliver I've got fed up doing this rather just take to charity shop it's out of the way and less hassle good luck

Don't forget your local auction rooms. Over the years we have sold a lot of items, not just furniture that way. Visit on a viewing day to see the kind of things they sell and then discuss with them what you want to sell.

When we downsized I put the old kitchen on freecycle. Someone promised to come round so I waited in all day. When it got to about 4pm I phoned her to ask if she was coming to which her response was “we drove past (I had the good in the front garden) ” and decided they were not suitable! She could have rang the bell and told me so I could have let them go to someone else who was interested.

Look out for locally held jumble sales next time. We hold 4 each year for different charities and are always glad of donations. We began in 2004 and have raised almost £70000 for a variety of good causes.

I've had similar with freecycle and it took 7 attempts to get rid of a blue rug. I've had similar though with Facebook Marketplace . I once had a chap contacting me to ask if I had second hand towels ( I was selling a massage table) and wanted me to take photos . I had a woman that promised to come for some Lladro and never turned up. I will not repeat my language with the timewasters that are around. They seem to get a kick out of not turning up after you have made a special effort to stay in and provide directions.
Yet I've also met a few nice people - one was so nice and polite, when I had more things to offer I just emailed him direct. He turned up as promised and was very grateful.
I had a bed and matress which had not been used more than 5 times. As there was a tiny mark ( less than half an inch) on the underneath of the matress , the charity would not take it nor the unmarked frame and headboard as the charity wanted a set. I managed to sell it for about £30 but the intention was to donate to charity. Charities are far too picky as I'd seen dirtier matresses in showrooms.
To be blunt some people are a*holes!

These sites are a form of entertainment for some sad people.
I’ve tried them and would be very reluctant to use then again.
I will be amazed if the guy that failed to turn up last night turns up tonight but Good Luck!

Yes and I had the same experience, so I added to the post. Only polite enquiries will be responded to.
One was very rude as I wouldn’t deliver , I’m not backwards in coming forwards so he got an earful.
I’ve never used since then