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Much more sensitive, so please do not reply if this is too much for you. How old where your parents then they died.

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Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 16:55:54

mum 94

dad 96

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 18-Apr-23 16:58:45

I don’t understand this interest in our parents. Why? It’s the sort of information that could be useful to scammers. And very personal.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 18-Apr-23 17:02:44

Germanshepherdsmum

I don’t understand this interest in our parents. Why? It’s the sort of information that could be useful to scammers. And very personal.

That is why I have not posted on the similar thread.

Gossamerbeynon1945 Tue 18-Apr-23 17:04:26

Mum 39 Dad 47.

Foxygloves Tue 18-Apr-23 17:04:26

Who wants to know and why?
I find this prurient interest in personal information rather distasteful.
It could also abet scammers trying to access passwords or security questions.
MYOB

ElderBerry4 Tue 18-Apr-23 17:09:20

I think those advising caution have a good point. ⚠️

MerylStreep Tue 18-Apr-23 17:12:28

Too personal. Especially as we now have 2 threads by the same OP wanting information.

Windee Tue 18-Apr-23 17:13:16

They will be wanting maiden names next hmm

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 18-Apr-23 17:16:51

I would like to know why this information is being requested - none of which I have given or would give.

Mollygo Tue 18-Apr-23 17:18:59

Feels a bit like 🎣

Marydoll Tue 18-Apr-23 17:22:47

Without being mean, I suspect the OP is either lonely, bored or just wanting to start posts and is running out of interesting topics.

Foxygloves Tue 18-Apr-23 17:24:32

Maybe it could be restarted in Pedants’ Corner under “Were/where/we’re” confusion?

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 17:29:07

Germanshepherdsmum

I don’t understand this interest in our parents. Why? It’s the sort of information that could be useful to scammers. And very personal.

Interest in parents in general. I was discussing when our parents were born the other day with younger friends, and discussed the amazing changes they had experienced in their lives- and the advent of technology. So started a post on when parents were born, quite simply. As several mentionned the age of when parents died in that thread, I thought it would be relevant to start another thread on this subject. Realised some would find it too personal, so put something to that effect in the title.

Scammers? Why? How? Never crossed my mind. As for being bored, thank you, but no.

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 17:30:25

Germanshepherdsmum

I would like to know why this information is being requested - none of which I have given or would give.

No-one has requested anything at all. Have you read the title OP?

MerylStreep Tue 18-Apr-23 17:47:28

Marydoll

Without being mean, I suspect the OP is either lonely, bored or just wanting to start posts and is running out of interesting topics.

I couldn’t agree more. Who sits at home thinking of this stuff.

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 17:50:26

How very rude and wrong.

As said, we discussed with with friends very recently. And kitty started on thread on shock of finding ACs reaching 50, and some mentionning 60. Quite simple, really.

MerylStreep Tue 18-Apr-23 17:50:33

no one has requested anything at all
How old were your parents when they died is a question asking for information.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 18-Apr-23 17:51:15

Fleurpepper

Germanshepherdsmum

I would like to know why this information is being requested - none of which I have given or would give.

No-one has requested anything at all. Have you read the title OP?

Fleurpepper you have asked us to post how old our parents were when they died, that is by my reckoning a request

Kalu Tue 18-Apr-23 17:53:41

What’s with all this prying into posters personal details OP?
Similarly with yet another thread you started but refused to answer my question, what is the point of your thread?
These are intrusive questions which could easily out many posters so my reply is…non of your business.

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 17:54:43

NO it is not- it is a simple question and with Much more sensitive, so please do not reply if this is too much for you.

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 17:57:14

Blimey - it seems some posters were ready and happy to pounce. No-one is asking or requesting anything at all.

I find it very interesting to consider what our parents went through and experienced over their lives.

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 18-Apr-23 17:57:22

‘How old were your parents when they died?’ or ‘When were your parents born?’ seems to me like a request for exactly that information. If you don’t understand how this information is of use to the many scammers we know pick up on GN threads, you’re very naive.

May I suggest that a thread to elicit the information in which you seem to be interested might be entitled ‘What changes to everyday life would your parents have experienced during their lifetimes’? Something of interest to many I would think, certainly to me, and to which many would be happy to contribute without compromising personal details.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 18-Apr-23 17:58:36

Fleurpepper

NO it is not- it is a simple question and with *Much more sensitive, so please do not reply if this is too much for you.*

A request is a question and according to Google does not need a question mark.

ElderBerry4 Tue 18-Apr-23 17:59:04

Ever heard of Phishing?

Mollygo Tue 18-Apr-23 18:03:09

ElderBerry4

Ever heard of Phishing?

🎣🎣🎣
Exactly.