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travelsafar Tue 31-Oct-23 20:24:01

Last Wednesday I posted a birthday card for my sister, her birthday was today 31st she still hasn't received it and we live in the same town!!!!
I'm really cross as we both set great store on cards to each other.
My brothers birthday is 6th Nov so I've posted his today in hopes he will get. No wonder people just send emails and text messages on special days as the post so unreliable.I will be hand delivering Xmas cards if possible,saving myself money and disappointment 😞

Mollygo Fri 03-Nov-23 19:35:35

Good news. The letter I mentioned above arrived -and today my driving licence is safely back with me. Well done RM.

seadragon Fri 03-Nov-23 19:59:15

I send gifts by Special Delivery now which usually costs £6-£10 a parcel which is supposed to mean next day delivery but I am happy of the parcel arrives within a fortnight as we live in Orkney(!) and it gives me piece of mind as it includes tracking. I'm not well off but the system has not let us down yet.

AlisonKF Fri 03-Nov-23 20:58:26

I only send electronic cards now. Wonderfuls selection at Jacquie Lawson foeevery occasion,with music and message facility

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 03-Nov-23 21:17:54

I’m always disappointed to get an e-card. Some friends always send them. It’s nice to have something to display l. I find Jacquie Lawson cards very twee,

Bijou Fri 03-Nov-23 21:33:28

I received a Christmas card from Barbados in April.

Oreo Fri 03-Nov-23 21:50:53

A friend posted a card to DP recently, she allowed 5 days for it get here just in case, and it didn’t arrive until several days after his birthday.You could have walked the distance in one day.

Oreo Fri 03-Nov-23 21:51:31

Germanshepherdsmum

I’m always disappointed to get an e-card. Some friends always send them. It’s nice to have something to display l. I find Jacquie Lawson cards very twee,

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Mollygo Fri 03-Nov-23 22:12:23

Jaccqui Lawson aren’t the only e cards, but once again it’s down to personal enjoyment or dislike. If somebody sends me a JL card, I play it, then click and send a thank you
just because I appreciate the thought.

nanna8 Fri 03-Nov-23 23:05:34

Same,mollygo but I don’t like them. Very schmaltzy.

henetha Fri 03-Nov-23 23:35:15

Hi Helter-skelter. The postie left it in the front basket of my mobility scooter which lives in the garage. My front door, and porch, are up three steps from the driveway. So there's no reason that I can think of. Maybe he just decided to play a game of Hunt the Post with me... 😊

Twopence Sat 04-Nov-23 05:53:31

I've decided that this year I'm not going to send Christmas cards to people I can email, phone or message on Facebook. This is partly because of the cost and unreliability of the postal service. I will donate to Alzheimer's Society instead.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 04-Nov-23 10:08:18

May I say, just a personal thing but I would feel so disappointed if someone just sent me an email message (I’m not on FB) and said they are giving money to charity instead of sending cards. I have had this happen with someone who could very well afford to post cards and give a big donation to charity and I just thought ‘Yeah, right’. I haven’t experienced cards posted in plenty of time (I usually post around 1Dec) not arriving. People who are lonely can’t put an email message on their mantelpiece and remember that somebody cared enough to take the trouble.

Nonnadiana Sat 04-Nov-23 16:14:59

Posted halloween sweets to my grandkids on Friday and they arrived on the Monday to se England. (Second class from glasgow)

MaggiJR Sat 04-Nov-23 18:12:11

I used Funky Pigeon, paying for 1st class postage for my daughter's new twins on Tuesday. It's now Saturday and she still hasn't got it.
I won't be using them again!

Warbler Sat 04-Nov-23 19:27:25

Oooh err....yes, Christmas Cards......maybe we should have posted them at Easter. It's a bit of a dilemma isn't it.

Milest0ne Sat 04-Nov-23 20:09:58

A letter from the local hospital was written on the 3rd, posted 1st class on 4th and received on 13th. The postman said they often have complaints that letters arrive too late for the hospital appointment. His explanation was that several postmen had left but not been replaced so they were short staffed.
I sent a parcel to my D in a baltic country. I sent it tracked but it still was not delivered as they are only tracked till they leave UK . I think it has gone down a black hole in Poland

Grammaretto Sun 05-Nov-23 04:27:56

As others have said, parcels via Royal Mail are better than letters. I ask for next day delivery and it works
It's expensive but when speed is important, worth it
If I send something fragile I always fast track it. That way it spends less time in the system so no chance to be used as a football.
DGD has a job with the RM Christmas post so I shall blame her if cards arrive late!😂

Notagranyet1234 Sun 05-Nov-23 14:33:36

In our house the post is referred to as Royal Fail. We've missed medical appointments, had late charges on credit cards, missed birthdays and was late paying car tax all because of the dreadful postage service. I try these days to do everything on line because we are quite rural and lucky to get post once a week. I think the poor postie's are just overwhelmed by the amount they have to deliver and because we are way high up in the valley and they run out of time before they get to us.