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Two year old starves to death

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Whethertomorrow Wed 17-Jan-24 02:33:04

This is the most awful heartbreaking story I think I’ve ever heard.

A poor little lad starved to death next to the body of his father who apparently died of a heart attack. Social services attended address twice but didn’t get an answer.

Why did they not persevere? That poor little boy, he could have survived if found earlier.

When I did cleaning for age concern we were told if there was no answer to our knocking then we were to call the police in case something was wrong. Surely the social services could have done the same. No doubt ‘lessons will be learned’.

I am in absolute pieces typing this. I can only hope the little lad didn’t take a long time to die or in agony.

Anniebach Thu 18-Jan-24 22:13:56

I just read - the father had sole custody of the child

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 18-Jan-24 22:15:14

Nor should they unless they know they did everything they possibly could have done. They will know the answer to that, and we will also know in due course. I was only responsible for money, not lives, but regardless of workload there was no clocking off and leaving things for a few days. How a necessary visit to a vulnerable - and potentially missing - toddler can be shelved for a few days is beyond my understanding. There can be no excuse.

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Jan-24 22:46:54

Anniebach

I just read - the father had sole custody of the child

Where did you read that, Anniebach?

JaneJudge Thu 18-Jan-24 22:47:46

Night owl you are right, we shouldn’t speculate but austerity and cutting services has been a complete disaster with real life consequences.

Anniebach Thu 18-Jan-24 22:59:12

Callistemon one of the newspapers, sorry can’t remember which , I was scrolling through them, there was also some info on the woman who owns the basement flat.

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Jan-24 23:01:08

It could be the Sky News report? In that, the mother said she heard of her ex-partner's death from a friend and rushed over there, worrying about her child. She lived not far away.

Anniebach Thu 18-Jan-24 23:07:51

I just checked it, it doesn’t speak of the basement flat owner or the poor state of the flat, I am sorry

BlueBelle Thu 18-Jan-24 23:12:56

I m afraid she’s a funny type of mother to not see or contact her baby from November to January so easy for her to relinquish her responsibility and blame everyone else !
Goodness what a tragedy The baby doesn’t look well cared for the house looks very mucky and both parents loaded with tattoos which aren’t two a penny shame the little chap wasn’t placed in a foster home maybe if there’s blame to hand out that’s where it lies leaving him in a mucky run down environment with two inadequat parents

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Jan-24 23:16:24

There must be something radically wrong with a society where, despite the availability of free contraception, some people can keep on producing children they are unable to care for and then place the responsibility for the welfare of these children on the State, in this case Social Services and an overworked social worker.

Sorry if that sounds harsh but it is these poor children I'm thinking of - they deserve better. 😡

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Jan-24 23:17:29

X post with Bluebelle's.

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Jan-24 23:22:27

BlueBelle

I m afraid she’s a funny type of mother to not see or contact her baby from November to January so easy for her to relinquish her responsibility and blame everyone else !
Goodness what a tragedy The baby doesn’t look well cared for the house looks very mucky and both parents loaded with tattoos which aren’t two a penny shame the little chap wasn’t placed in a foster home maybe if there’s blame to hand out that’s where it lies leaving him in a mucky run down environment with two inadequat parents

I'm not sure if the father was inadequate but he was not well. The child seemed happy to be with him.
There was reportedly food in the fridge too.

Just tragic.

veejay Thu 18-Jan-24 23:54:31

It seems strange the dog didn't bark if people were knocking at the door,but maybe too weak as the poor dog ,a boxer I believe was very emaciated .
Poor little boy apparently the next door neighbour heard the child crying a few days before they were found