It was posted upthread that that a person was glad her forty something daughter liked her self not to have botox or other enhancements. I find this attitude so self satisfied.
I have, in my opinion a beutiful daughter, both inside and out.
My daughter is a single parent, a highly paid journalist who works incredibly hard to give a brilliant life for my Grandson. I only mention the above because she has had botox. She is a feminist and would not let the media influence her. Its entirely up to her. A very intelligent woman who made a researched and informed decision.
My personal view is that any Mother, whose daughter keeps quiet about her proceedure because she knows she will be judged is disgraceful, and as for not feeling the same about her daughter, I think that is alful. My daughter told me in general conversation and there was no judgement, it is her life, her decision.
I never will have botox , that is up to me. I respect my daughter enough to make her decisions in life.
One or two posters sound the the judgemental interfering Mothers/ Mothers in law that Mumsnet so often complain about.