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Ladyleftfieldlover Thu 16-May-24 21:47:50

A friend sent me this just now:

Oreo Thu 16-May-24 22:16:59

I think ‘tolerate’ your neighbour is a bit more doable tho.

Luckygirl3 Thu 16-May-24 22:18:03

Perhaps this should be on all the judgemental threads that seem to be proliferating on this site recently.

Oreo Thu 16-May-24 22:22:52

Where’s the fun in that tho?😄

Oreo Thu 16-May-24 22:24:05

Only kidding Luckygirl
The world needs more tolerance all round.

Ali23 Thu 16-May-24 22:38:14

Love it !

petra Thu 16-May-24 22:41:01

Luckygirl3

Perhaps this should be on all the judgemental threads that seem to be proliferating on this site recently.

Oh, where are they 🤷‍♀️ I must have missed them 😉

Sarnia Thu 16-May-24 22:41:40

Not too sure about the 'with no exceptions' part. I am all for tolerance but wouldn't be loving my neighbour if they had committed crimes against children, for example. The milk of human kindness wouldn't stretch that far for me.

Barbadosbelle Thu 16-May-24 23:00:41

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Mmm. Not sure I agree.

I totally love and adore my family and special friends.
I very much like some of my neighbours and work colleagues.
I tolerate many others on the fringes. But a few others I just can't stand!!

And I think that's all pretty normal!!

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Callistemon21 Thu 16-May-24 23:03:13

with no exceptions is stretching it a bit far!

It's just one of those memes that go round on FB and other sites.

Anyway, God said it first.

Galaxy Thu 16-May-24 23:30:42

No thanks. That sounds like someone with no boundaries.
One of my neighbours was abusive to his wife. He didnt think like me at all.

MissAdventure Thu 16-May-24 23:37:36

Sounds good to me.
At least try...

Macadia Fri 17-May-24 00:19:14

Forgive your neighbor.

MissAdventure Fri 17-May-24 00:22:13

Well, except when they fill up the communal bin after it's just been emptied, obviously.

nanna8 Fri 17-May-24 00:27:42

Very Christian. Also love thine enemy!

MissAdventure Fri 17-May-24 00:39:17

Well, unless someone has done something to you, personally, then at least maybe try some empathy, if not love.

And forgiveness is supposed to be good for you, if you've been wronged.

It's a tall order though.

Ali08 Fri 17-May-24 05:15:31

Indeed, Barbadosbelle.

mumofmadboys Fri 17-May-24 05:51:03

Hate the sin but love the sinner!

fancythat Fri 17-May-24 06:56:24

On some threads where kindness seems thin in real life, even to their friends, I am mindful of the parable of the good Samaritan.

A man helps a stranger on a road, who has got beaten up.

PamelaJ1 Fri 17-May-24 07:19:05

Well I’m tolerating mine at the moment. Can’t see me loving him any time soon. Or his wife!
They look like us, probably vote like us, go to the same church,
No idea about their love life and they have one or two more wrinkles than us.
I can still only tolerate them.

HelterSkelter1 Fri 17-May-24 07:40:00

I prefer Do as you would be done by. That for me covers most bases and is achievable.

Vintagewhine Fri 17-May-24 07:46:06

I prefer the idea that we should treat others as we would wish to be treated ourselves. Tolerance, kindness and consideration come to mind. I'd also add generosity in the widest sense. Do I always live up to these ideals? No but I try.

flappergirl Fri 17-May-24 08:00:40

I'm not a Christian but I do try to love and forgive which, as a human with human flaws, is all one can do. Unfortunately I've met many Christians in my long life who seem to be the least able to aspire to this philosophy.

petra Fri 17-May-24 08:26:58

Flappergirl
I’m very close to one such person, and a Sunday School teacher to boot.
The comments that come out of her mouth Re people on benefits are literally jaw dropping. Her meanness is on Olympic gold medal level.

AGAA4 Fri 17-May-24 08:39:36

I try to be fair minded and treat all my neighbours with the same contempt. 😄